Am I selfish

[ratherbebig]

wife and husband needs both to be out doing what the hell they wanna do.

just let some relative take care of the kid, thats what they do in the ghettos.

and as we know, the divorce rate in the ghettos are practically zero.

[DroppingPlates]

You are right sir. All is well and more balanced now. The wife was sick all true 2016. It was a rough year.

I'm sorry to hear about your wife, good she's in better spirits now.

[SF1900]

Lol exactly

Here is the real deal:

Your health should come before your family. I am not saying spend 7 days per week in the gym. However, your overall health should become your family. Why? Because if you're 6 feet in the ground then you're no good to your wife or your child. Your overall health will dictate every aspect of your life, i.e., whether you're able to go to work, play with your son, etc. You should be allowed some time to care for your health.

This is also why your spouse has to come before your child. Your marriage is the cornerstone of your child's future. Parents cannot fathom putting their spouse before their child. But its necessary.

Too bad your wife is not looking at it like this.

[DroppingPlates]

wife and husband needs both to be out doing what the hell they wanna do.

just let some relative take care of the kid, thats what they do in the ghettos.

and as we know, the divorce rate in the ghettos are practically zero.

You have some weird ideas about society

[ratherbebig]

Here is the real deal:

Your health should come before your family. I am not saying spend 7 days per week in the gym. However, your overall health should become your family. Why? Because if you're 6 feet in the ground then you're no good to your wife or your child. Your overall health will dictate every aspect of your life, i.e., whether you're able to go to work, play with your son, etc. You should be allowed some time to care for your health.

This is also why your spouse has to come before your child. Your marriage is the cornerstone of your child's future. Parents cannot fathom putting their spouse before their child. But its necessary.

Too bad your wife is not looking at it like this.

in other words: stay off both hockey and the gym.

[JCL]

yes your wife need to be away playing hockey too a few times a week...

If she played hockey i'd support it.

[JCL]

This is a normal situation, each partner stands for the other one.

To the OP,wtf,you work 10-12 hours so you deserve your moments of reward. Working out would make you feel better and even earn better money,make your wife understand that,she doesn't need an always-pissed husband or depressed one,she needs a calm and happy husband to tolerate her shit and the kid's shit.

Also,she says she preffers you being fatter,that is absolute bullshit and nothing but a lie. My ex-wife managed to fuck my life,she also said the same thing and i was actually stupid enough to quit gym for her. After 4 years we divorced because we couldn't do it right ,last months she would always say i look like shit(which i actually do now according to getbig standards) . Popped some trenballonie and back to gym,never quit what you like/love for a woman, she loves you she will not try to change you .Period.

Amen, sorry to hear about your past.  Glad you're rockin again.

[JCL]

wife and husband needs both to be out doing what the hell they wanna do.

just let some relative take care of the kid, thats what they do in the ghettos.

and as we know, the divorce rate in the ghettos are practically zero.

Your opinions just lost credibility, this isnt a joke.

[JCL]

Here is the real deal:

Your health should come before your family. I am not saying spend 7 days per week in the gym. However, your overall health should become your family. Why? Because if you're 6 feet in the ground then you're no good to your wife or your child. Your overall health will dictate every aspect of your life, i.e., whether you're able to go to work, play with your son, etc. You should be allowed some time to care for your health.

This is also why your spouse has to come before your child. Your marriage is the cornerstone of your child's future. Parents cannot fathom putting their spouse before their child. But its necessary.

Too bad your wife is not looking at it like this.

She's been through 9 months of pregnancy and now not working and having a kid latched onto her tit all day, hopefully the dust settles and she'll see more clearly. Appreciate your response.

[OLKE_TEXAS]

I'm sorry to hear about your wife, good she's in better spirits now.

Thanx brah. Some meds can do miracles I can tell you that.

[ratherbebig]

feel sorry for any woman who's married to a moron who rather play hockey and go to the gym than be there for her right after she delivered his first child.

[ratherbebig]

"but i need time for myself!!"

"im gonna be fat if i dont train for a week!"

sounds to me she doesnt have one kid, she has two.

[DroppingPlates]

feel sorry for any woman who's married to a moron who rather play hockey and go to the gym than be there for her right after she delivered his first child.

In this case you're the moron by drawing the wrong conclusions.

[ratherbebig]

In this case you're the moron by drawing the wrong conclusions.

what conclusions

[JCL]

feel sorry for any woman who's married to a moron who rather play hockey and go to the gym than be there for her right after she delivered his first child.

You're making a fool of yourself.  Being a troll is the opposite of a moron i suppose.

[ratherbebig]

You're making a fool of yourself.  Being a troll is the opposite of a moron i suppose.

maybe i will see more clearly one day.

[DroppingPlates]

maybe i will see more clearly one day.

A woman in your life might help

[ratherbebig]

A woman in your life might help

a woman that one day will see things more clearly.

[DroppingPlates]

a woman that one day will see things more clearly.

she might dump you on that day for a normal guy

[JCL]

she might dump you on that day for a normal guy

hahah that was good.

[Primemuscle]

Some of the advice offered here is worth consideration if it fits your wife and your needs. My opinion, which is based on 52 years of marriage, is that each of you should be willing to compromise, respecting each others hopes and needs. Both of you should be prepared to make sacrifices on behalf of your child.

[ratherbebig]

she might dump you on that day for a normal guy

not a chance, i leave early in the morning and when i get home from work/gym/hockey she's sleeping

[JCL]

Some of the advice offered here is worth consideration if it fits your wife and your needs. My opinion, which is based on 52 years of marriage, is that each of you should be willing to compromise, respecting each others hopes and needs. Each of you should be prepared to make sacrifices on behalf of your child.

I realize this is the correct way of thinking, Im just frustrated from last night and wanted to vent a little.

Thanks for your response, congrats to your 52 years of marriage. Wish you many more.

[JCL]

not a chance, i leave early in the morning and when i get home from work/gym/hockey she's sleeping

That was also good! War of the minds! Get him plates!

[DroppingPlates]

not a chance, i leave early in the morning and when i get home from work/gym/hockey she's sleeping

Meanwhile she had a good fuck from your single neighbor