Ask a gay Getbigger anything - within reason

[Walter Sobchak]

60 posts since I registered in 2012 fat fuck. I'm a gay man, this thread was at the top of the page, it caught my attention, if that doesn't make sense to you then you're the fucking retard.  And I don't care if that's you in your avatar or not, it's a fine picture to have of you in my mind.  FAT FUCK.

Just fucking stop idiot.

It's not funny or original.

It's assfucks like you, howard, joon and Fat Ron Avidan's acceptance of your stupidity that has turned getbig into a shithole.

So fuck off and die spermburper

[rangerwil]

I'm gay too, and like rangerwil, people only know if I tell them.  Unless he has a gay man answering these questions, he's gay, not a gimmick.

Thank you.

60 posts and you suddenly arrive to support the fake gay gimmick?

Why would I start an account to sit here and lie about my sexuality?
What would be the point? Where is the fun in that?
Why am I a gimmick? It makes ZERO sense.
Tell me what would I gain.
It's not like I'm doing like LOTS of guys here and racking up posts counts. I'm trying to make my to numerous posts in ONE post.
So that's not my angle{gimmick}.
I came here under this name to be me.
Just me.
Also..I agree with mayan..if that's your pic in ur avatar, your fucking fat as fuck man.
Your not even Bear status in the gay world...you're in the morbidly fucking obese zone.

[rangerwil]

Seriously, why are some gays feminine?

It takes all types. Some gay guys are fem some are QUITE masculine.
I happen to prefer the fem type.
They get a lot of flack in the gay world cuz many people find them annoying.
If it's a genuine lack of masculinity and not just some gay guy acting all faggy--I LOVE it!

[Alfurinn]

Seriously, why are some gays feminine? You would think that hanging and fucking men all day, with no women to ground them , would make them all hyper masculine. Like a frat house sausage party but someone gets fucked.

Gender expression is not a fixed trait; most of everybody's gender expression is learnt and it can vary through time.
Now, something most people never stop to think about is that inequality is already decided in the womb. Heterosexual boys will usually see in the father a role model that will teach them what women like about men and how to interact around women; likewise, heterosexual girl will learn from the mother how to interact with men how to be seductive, etc. But homosexual boys have no proper role model that can teach them what homosexual men find attractive about men so some may end up taking the only example available, that is, women. Some will learn from women's example and how they interact and seduce men. The problem is though that femininity is not attractive for most gay men.

That is not the only reason; sometimes women are better role models than men. There are also many heterosexual men who are feminine, but you probably never think they can be heterosexual. And women, many heterosexual women are masculine and if we talk about female bodybuilding many heterosexual women evidently highly gender nonconforming.

[rangerwil]

I hadda read that twice.
Very good post.

But homosexual boys have no proper role model that can teach them what homosexual men find attractive about men so some may end up takinf the only example available, that is women.

Maybe that too will change now that more and more male couples are adopting.
Hmmmm...

[HTexan]

It takes all types. Some gay guys are fem some are QUITE masculine.
I happen to prefer the fem type.
They get a lot of flack in the gay world cuz many people find them annoying.
If it's a genuine lack of masculinity and not just some gay guy acting all faggy--I LOVE it!

I know. I have gay friends that are very masculine. Pretty much regular manly guys that just like men. I never had to balls to ask them why some gay men are very feminine. Do they wish they were female or something?

[gym**rat]

Also..I agree with mayan..if that's your pic in ur avatar, your fucking fat as fuck man.
Your not even Bear status in the gay world...you're in the morbidly fucking obese zone.

60 posts since I registered in 2012 fat fuck. I'm a gay man, this thread was at the top of the page, it caught my attention, if that doesn't make sense to you then you're the fucking retard.  And I don't care if that's you in your avatar or not, it's a fine picture to have of you in my mind.  FAT FUCK.

This is the best part of this thread. 2 pole smokers slamming Walter's avatar as being an obese fat fuck that no gay man would want. They don't realize it is one of their own kind, Shizzo. Too damn funny! 

[rangerwil]

I know. I have gay friends that are very masculine. Pretty much regular manly guys that just like men. I never had to balls to ask them why some gay men are very feminine. Do they wish they were female or something?

Actually--some gay guys do wish they were females. Pretty sure most gays are happy being men. The fake fem guys sorta reinforce the stereotypes straight people have of gays. Maybe I shouldn't say it's just the fake ones--prob all of them.
Right now, I'm seeing this guy that is BEYOND feminine. It's soooo natural for him..it is him.
Plus--he's 6'3 about 145 lbs.  I'm 6'4 about 260lbs..We turn heads everywhere we go.
Fucking love it!

[Mobil]

Is it true men that "turn gay" not "born gay" is because of being rejected by women their whole life?

[Shizzo]

This is the best part of this thread. 2 pole smokers slamming Walter's avatar as being an obese fat fuck that no gay man would want. They don't realize it is one of their own kind, Shizzo. Too damn funny! 

[gym**rat]

Oh come on, you gotta admit that is pretty funny shit. 

[The Scott]

OP is a lover of Nellies.

Or as some of my friends that were homosexual used to call guys like him, a true bottom feeder. 

[rangerwil]

^^ meaningless^^

What a nellie anyway?
Fucking speak English.

[The Scott]

^^ meaningless^^

What a nellie anyway?
Fucking speak English.

If you really don't know, then it's obvious you're not homosexual.  The few homosexual guys I know these days are more than aware of what  that means.  But then, they really are gay and not just playing it on the interwebs.

[rangerwil]

^^meaningless^^

again.

[The Scott]

^^meaningless^^

again.

Well, I would say you have been "outed" but given the context in which that word is often used these days I would say it is "meaningless" when applied to you. Let's just say you are hetero and leave it at that.

[rangerwil]

WOW!
Never in life did I have to prove I'm gay.
lol
Isn't it supposed to be the other way around?
It's amusing how many of you straight guys are taking up the cause for me.
I dont get it---if you think I'm a gimmick, then why come to this thread?
I just wish one of u would tell me exactly WHY I would come here and claim to be gay.
I know how this board treats gay guys.
Come on..its a silly stance to take saying I'm not gay.

[The Scott]

WOW!
Never in life did I have to prove I'm gay.
lol
Isn't it supposed to be the other way around?
It's amusing how many of you straight guys are taking up the cause for me.
I dont get it---if you think I'm a gimmick, then why come to this thread?
I just wish one of u would tell me exactly WHY I would come here and claim to be gay.
I know how this board treats gay guys.
Come on..its a silly stance to take saying I'm not gay.

I really don't care who you are in the real world but you're certainly not homosexual.  The only two homosexuals on this board I can think of are One and Bay, both of whom are nice guys that happen to be homosexual.  BFD.  And when you get right down to it, there ain't a whole lot to being homosexual.  It doesn't make you more "talented" in the arts, more educated, handsome, a better athlete or anything else that matters in the real world to anyone except Democrats.

It just means you prefer sex with the same sex.  Granted, some of that crap is beyond deviant but then heterosexuals can be pretty disgusting too. 

[rangerwil]

Okay..now we're talking!
Okay---and since you DONT know me--how do u know I'm straight?
I'm telling you--I'm not.
Why are you insisting I am?

[The Scott]

Okay..now we're talking!
Okay---and since you DONT know me--how do u know I'm straight?
I'm telling you--I'm not.
Why are you insisting I am?

Okay...Now you're reaching. And again, I used terms that are quite common among homosexuals and you claim not to know them.  Run along now.

[rangerwil]

Term...one term you used.

And no silly--it's NOT a common gay term.
Never heard it ever in life..
Your theory is that because I didnt know your little common gay word that makes me not gay.
Fucking idiot you.
How  do you make your way thru life with thoughts like this?
Fucking moron...theres an expression
I'm done arguing this with you.
Next..

[myosaurus]

do you have any pic posted? 6' 4'' 260lbs that's a big man.

[stuntmovie]

NELLIE: There are a number of definitions for that name ..... but the one that fits best here IS ....

Noun.
1. An effeminate or homosexual male.
2. A feeble, soft person.

[rangerwil]

do you have any pic posted? 6' 4'' 260lbs that's a big man.

I don't have pics posted anywhere a straight guy would find them.

[Las Vegas]

MoS: Is there an obligation or duty or command or Command to inform a "gay" person that s/he is destined for Hell on the current path?

No troll, no disrespect to anyone.  Serious question.