Thanks for the responses, everyone.
Walking away is easy to do depending on the person. But in this case, one of the abusive women is my mother. Simply put, it just feels sinful...basically, unholy...to leave your own mother. Right?
Another thing I have not mentioned to Getbig is that my first daughter is actually technically a stepdaughter. Her father died when she was two months post-conception. I was 26 at the time and wanted my own family, so I decided that I would take her on as my own. However, there is a little bit of genetic drift that I can't get over - some behaviour that I can't see my own biological children engaging in, depending on the women I select to have children with. That being - she keeps hitting my son. My son is on the same level of the autism spectrum that I am - on the cusp/borderline - and he is just a quiet little boy who sits and does nothing.
Last Thursday, with Friday being a day off school [in Ontario, these are called "PA Days"], I decided to have a staycation at a nice hotel in the city, with a swimming pool, hot tub, etc. I spent $350 on my little girl that day, and $50 on my son [full-blooded biological son].
He didn't complain at all, despite the fact that I spent seven times more on his sister.
The next day, after leaving the hotel, I decided to buy him a Nintendo Switch. After doing so, the amount spent on him went up to about $630 for Matthew Jr. with Sophia's total rising to $360. He was thrilled and he asked me to feel his heart - it was beating out of his chest, he was so happy. He said it was beating like an Ocelot - I didn't even know what an Ocelot was; Ocelots are big cats, so I learned something new from my son's cute statement.
So what happened on the ride home? Just because he was happy, she felt the need to smash him over the head with a Wal-Mart bag containing a small hard-edged item, roughly the size/weight/hardness of a mini-speaker. I couldn't believe what I was seeing.
From there, I was livid, and made it a point to tell his mother's current boyfriend who was fine with it - his mother was fine with it, literally every female relative was fine with it. It was only then that I realized how little women tend to care about male issues. Yet I'm supposed to support women's rights issues, including the bullsh*t gender pay gap garbage?
Please.
So, because I was being the victim of gaslighting, I decided to install a rear facing camera in my car. Suddenly, a couple of women who read my Facebook post on this started saying "OMG, that is such a horrible thing to do to Sophia."
F*CKING EXCUSE ME? So my daughter is the victim now, as opposed to my son who is being smashed in the face repeatedly?? Unbelievable. Furthermore, even the rare times he hits her, it's the result of literally seven years of his life facing abuse from her.
Here's the thing - EVERY time I threaten to record the behaviour of abusive women, they either stop, or freak out and demand that I not record anything [knowing full damn well that they are being abusive, and don't want evidence of such].
This is absolute madness. Am I forced to record these women in order to continue having relationships with them? My God...
Is there any other solution that works as effectively as recording them? Because recording them does work.
