Usually gay guys can tell if you're gay or not. Some hit on you anyways just to see how you'll react. When I worked the door at Rich's in Hillcrest in San Diego vast majority (was a gay club in the gay part of town) were respectful and would at most crack a joke or two, but you have some guys who seem to be sexually frustrated or some shit and hit on you anyways just to see how you would react knowing you might be uncomfortable. Same type of guy (str8 version) hits on women knowing the reaction they'll get.
I remember being on a first date with hot Japanese girl on a Tuesday night about a month after I got out of prison and after quick drinks at Applebee's (she had a beer, sprite for me) she wanted to go to a club/bar, so we went to a gay bar her friend was a bartender at... so here I am at the bar making out this hot Japanese chick and all along I keep feeling like hands squeezing my back and squeezing my shoulders, and I'm thinking it's her doing it and then I felt it again on my shoulders I look down in her hands are down on my thighs and I realize it hasn't been her squeezing my shoulders and my lats. It's been the gay guys walking past me.
What was I gonna do? Flip out and want to fight them?
Not long after that, some gay guy comes up and hits on me right in front of this girl. starts talkin about "my beautiful eyes" and shit and inviting me home.. He has a pool.. Etc.. . Had to ask him " dude you see I'm here with this girl, right? I'm not gay dude." Dude says "she can come too" and sticks around for 5 or 10 minutes trying to fucking hit on me and even trying to get the girl to convince me to go. She wasn't having it. Is Duty even sits Aaron tells me how he "hates girls" and he hated her... Really rude shit. But again, what the fuck was I going to do?
Same night she spotted some dude standing up against the wall staring at me with a weird/creepy smile on his face. Dude was staring at me for almost an hour when I had to get up and piss. Sure nuff this retarded fuck follows me in and you standing right there when I turn on when I finish pissing. Same stupid fucking grin on his face like he was expecting something. It's guys like those two that aggravate the fuck out of me, normal gay guys don't bother me much.