Thanks for your service, fellow veteran.
You can alter your training such that you can continue lifting, but you’ll have to change your mindset regarding which lifts are necessary and how much weight to use.
It’s a process you’ll appreciate after you get to the point where you can derive satisfaction from pain-free lifting. I have spondylolisthesis at L-5 and a collision-induced cervical herniation, so I have some sense of your challenges.
Here’s an example: For DB rows I do 15 reps each with 15, 20, 25, 30, 40, and 50 lbs with no rest, before a final set with 60s. Try it or some variation with your lifts. For reference, I used to do DB rows for 8 with 120 lbs. I ride my bike lots, so that has caused most of the drop in strength.