SOMEPARTS, you're all over the place.
"Google it"? "getting screwed by an institution or account manager."? "corporate soul-sucking"? "day trade while working for somebody else"? "401K fools"? "tax deferred promises?" WTF?
You seem to know very little to nothing about investing early on and long term in a portfolio allocated to a US total stock market index fund, a US total bond market index fund, and an international total stock market index fund, making regular contributions to it rain or shine, then re-balancing once a year. Just set it, forget it, don't look at it until it's time to re-balance, no need to stress over it.
It's probably a good choice for you to stay away from investing in stocks and bonds.
Based on what you've posted, you seem to have made a very poor career choice early on, then finally found what works for you, investing in your own business and in real-estate. Nothing wrong with that. To each its own. Congratulations in finally finding what works for you!
Many people do make the right career choice early on and they do enjoy their careers. Their goal is not to retire early, but to accumulate wealth and reach financial independence ASAP, and continue working in the career which they enjoy, because they want to and not because they have to. To them, starting a business or investing in real-estate is far more risky than earning, saving, and passive investing.
For all these people, true passive investing in stocks and bonds is a very good choice, probably the best. And they can start a side business and/or invest in real estate too, if they wish to and have the time to do so.
Not everyone is an entrepreneur, a landlord, or a real-estate investor, or wish to ever be. Your posts come across as if you believe that these are the best choices, or the only choices for everyone to reach financial independence. You come across as trying to convince yourself more than anybody else that your choice is the best one, or the only one for both you and everyone else.
You keep making all these false blanket statements with nothing to back them up. No doubt you believe them. You seem to have this sense that you are in control, and that there is far less risk in owning a business and investing in real estate than there is in passive investing long term in stocks and bonds. If all this makes you feel better about your life choices, then more power to you. Whatever makes you happy and whatever makes you sleep better at night.
I'm not going to argue with you or try to convince you otherwise.