I have a buddy who’s 6’5, drives a new Range Rover, has a maybock his parents own he can use whenever he likes...good looking kid and comes from a good family...he is terrible with women because he’s so bitter with these instagram hoes. Refuses to show off his wealth or brag to get women...and that’s why he doesn’t get women. On the other end of the spectrum I know a guy that has no job and lives in a music studio, literally the definition of a bum.. has pulled numbers from celebrities and banged some of the baddest girls in Hollywood because he lies his off. Usually it’s im “so and so’s” manager or a casting director for this movie. Is it right? No but those who don’t adapt go extinct and these are the times we live in. Either play the game or go to the south and find you a nice southern chick..or if your lucky enough a foreign girl
the dude with the knock off Maybach is bitter, and if he is going for Instagram chicks, that's on him. He could easily meet a woman of substance in the grocery store, gym, school, mall, etc. You don't pursue these (IG) women, they have options, so pursuing them reeks of insecurity, and lack of options.
The other dude, just lies because he has nothing of substance, and only bangs girls that want to be "put on", and are probably offering their services elsewhere. The women who are in the know, he can't get, because they do their homework.
Both of these men are weak (character wise), but in different ways. The first one for allowing his feelings to get in the way of his mind, and not developing the inner strength, and to use his resources.
The other for not developing himself---living in the music studio and the "I make beats" is very common. The dude has to lie, because he has nothing to offer, no career, no future.
Both are weak characterwise in putting less than ideal women (in terms of character) on pedestals, which gives them the "ok" to act in said manner with no repercussions.
It's not "play the game", it's control the game. The ones like above, end up being the losers in life, because they have never become their own man.