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Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
« Reply #75 on: September 11, 2018, 05:01:31 AM »
Wimmens has needs jus like mens.

Mens dont wanna accept that wimmens has needs.

So we've all met a handful of ultra-skanky, mental-unstable, daddy issues-ridden women who brazenly demand sex from a lot of men they meet and will suck you off within 5 minutes on a first date or let you fuck their asses with no condoms. Every cross-section of the general population has its outliers and peculiarities.

The majority of women are not like that. They have the ability to turn "off" their sex drive in a way men can't. They don't produce sperm. They don't need to ejaculate. They can go months, even years, without masturbation or getting laid, by choice. Just ask around, it's not even that rare.

Men can't do any of those things. You know it as well as I do, since you're not a woman. Quit wacking off for 4 weeks and tell me how that works for you. In other words, womens' needs are things they have a lot of control over. Mens' needs are things that we're saddled with due to our hormones (of which we have roughly 10x as much of as the average female, meaning testosterone) and external genitals. We have it WAY harder than they do when it comes to the sexual sphere. Any douche will say yes to some broad who offers him a couple of hours of her time.

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Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
« Reply #76 on: September 11, 2018, 05:46:15 AM »
So we've all met a handful of ultra-skanky, mental-unstable, daddy issues-ridden women who brazenly demand sex from a lot of men they meet and will suck you off within 5 minutes on a first date or let you fuck their asses with no condoms. Every cross-section of the general population has its outliers and peculiarities.

The majority of women are not like that. They have the ability to turn "off" their sex drive in a way men can't. They don't produce sperm. They don't need to ejaculate. They can go months, even years, without masturbation or getting laid, by choice. Just ask around, it's not even that rare.

Men can't do any of those things. You know it as well as I do, since you're not a woman. Quit wacking off for 4 weeks and tell me how that works for you. In other words, womens' needs are things they have a lot of control over. Mens' needs are things that we're saddled with due to our hormones (of which we have roughly 10x as much of as the average female, meaning testosterone) and external genitals. We have it WAY harder than they do when it comes to the sexual sphere. Any douche will say yes to some broad who offers him a couple of hours of her time.

Random thoughts...

Both men and women have been taught in our society that women should be chaste.

Women use sex to get things from men.  They are physically weaker and in most societies restricted economically so this is their weapon.  Some women seek out men of power and wealth.  Their mothers very often teach them to do this, i.e. Jackie Bouvier Kennedy/Onassis.

Women who like sex outside of marriage are generally considered "bad".  Women who like lots of sex are considered aberrant.

Women masturbate.

Women are not visual about sex like men.  They need physical or mental stimulation to get horny.

Some women sleep around without their man knowing.  Some men do the opposite.

Women get horny. They say 70-80% of women do not achieve orgasm from penis penetration sex.  

Women fake orgasms a lot with their men.

Birth control allows women to have sex without getting pregnant, thus allowing freedom for sex.  Except for STDs.

Women sleep around a lot in college if they are not hung up on being chaste.

In conclusion...

People are really hung up on sex.  If people were not so hung up on it things might be better.  

It's a natural drive.  It's just sex. People need to have sex more than they do, otherwise it's all they think about.

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Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
« Reply #77 on: September 11, 2018, 05:55:58 AM »
Random thoughts...

Both men and women have been taught in our society that women should be chaste.

No, they're not. That hasn't been the case in 40 years, and it's a myth. What women still do, however, is judge and slut-shame each other into acting prudish. That's not the same thing. It's based on their historically-established need to fit in with other women and avoid being loners that they pander to other womens' opinions. It's a sign of mental and emotional weakness.

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Women use sex to get things from men.  They are physically weaker and in most societies restricted economically so this is their weapon.  Some women seek out men of power and wealth.  Their mothers very often teach them to do this.

That's called extortion.

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Women who like sex outside of marriage are generally considered "bad".  Women who like lots of sex are considered aberrant.

In Muslim and Asian countries, yeah. Not in the West, quite the opposite. Marriage is seen as a stagnant holdover from patriarchal societies that don't exist anymore. Why do you think divorce rates are at their highest in history?

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Women masturbate.

Some do, some don't. Not a lot of men can say the same. Probably like 99% of us do, vs. maybe 40% of women (their numbers, not mine).

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Women are not visual about sex like men.  They need physical or mental stimulation to get horny.

Then explain women who sleep with 50 people a month in pornography, or sell their asses to random men online or in the street? In those cases, was the catalyst to their arousal the exchange of money? Seems like it.

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Some women sleep around without their man knowing.  Some men do the opposite.

But there's far more men looking for that than women, so logically there's more women cheating than men, as they have more options.

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Women get horny.  Unfortunately their husbands may not sexually satisfy them.  They don't have orgasms with their husbands.  A lot of men don't know how to give a women orgasms.  They say 70-80% of women do not achieve orgasm from penetration sex.  Women fake orgasms a lot with their men.

They don't have orgasms because they use powerful battery-operated sex toys that men can't compete with. If they want to get off with sex, they should probably put the toys away or find someone more compatible. They've got enough men to pick from if the one they're with isn't doing it for them. Whereas most married men with a boring or unsexual wife are stuck because replacing them takes months of investment and is difficult and expensive, which is why most don't leave those relationships despite wanting to.

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Birth control allows women to have sex without getting pregnant, thus allowing freedom for sex.

It's also the reason for the negative fecundity rate in White countries and why they're reduced to begging immigrants who don't use birth control to come to their shores and breed, since their own women refuse to.

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Women sleep around a lot in college if they are not hung up on being chaste.

Post data to support this anecdotal evidence.

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In conclusion...

People are really hung up on sex.  If people were not so hung up on it things might be better.  

It's just a natural drive.  It's just sex.

No, it's not just sex. For a lot of men, it's prison.


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Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
« Reply #78 on: September 11, 2018, 07:11:56 AM »
Be a man of honor. Don't be a fucking pimp or a scumbag and take someone else's girl. If you couldn't get laid or were a social zero and that was all you could do to get a piece of ass, I would understand because that's all you've got. But you know you can get girls easily offshore and on the boat who aren't dating someone else. Stick with that crowd. Don't stick your beak in another man's worms.
Actually I didn't end up banging her until they broke up (which was months later when he returned back to the ship) I just was disgusted at how fucked up relationships are these days, working there and in bars/nightclubs in general really made me lose faith in humanity, I've been propositioned many times from married women to hook up which I never took the offer, I'm a huge believer in karma, I don't want any of that shit come back to me.
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Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
« Reply #79 on: September 11, 2018, 10:11:25 AM »
Actually I didn't end up banging her until they broke up (which was months later when he returned back to the ship) I just was disgusted at how fucked up relationships are these days, working there and in bars/nightclubs in general really made me lose faith in humanity, I've been propositioned many times from married women to hook up which I never took the offer, I'm a huge believer in karma, I don't want any of that shit come back to me.

Good deal.  8)

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Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
« Reply #80 on: September 11, 2018, 10:41:18 AM »
Banging married women can get you killed.

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Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
« Reply #81 on: September 11, 2018, 11:33:55 AM »
Actually I didn't end up banging her until they broke up (which was months later when he returned back to the ship) I just was disgusted at how fucked up relationships are these days, working there and in bars/nightclubs in general really made me lose faith in humanity, I've been propositioned many times from married women to hook up which I never took the offer, I'm a huge believer in karma, I don't want any of that shit come back to me.
Banging married women can get you killed.
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Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
« Reply #82 on: September 11, 2018, 01:09:27 PM »
Nope. Looks get you into the door. If you can’t speak, “game over”. Everybody has always said that Arnold had charm. Charm in this instance is “game”. It’s what Franco lacked (as well as height).

how did franco lack charm?  he didn't seem awkward like lou

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Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
« Reply #83 on: September 11, 2018, 01:26:03 PM »
decent looking guy with zero game


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Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
« Reply #84 on: September 11, 2018, 01:28:38 PM »
Banging married women can get you killed.

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Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
« Reply #85 on: September 11, 2018, 01:30:44 PM »
Banging married women can get you killed.
For sure dude, married guys don't take kindly to disrespect.
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Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
« Reply #86 on: September 11, 2018, 02:47:31 PM »
how did franco lack charm?  he didn't seem awkward like lou

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He was 5’4” to Lou’s 6’5”. That’s an automatic loss in the game of life.

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Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
« Reply #87 on: September 11, 2018, 02:48:36 PM »
Kwon-py-cat.

His gif is awesome. It’s creative. It’s like when they cloned Van Damme to play his own brother in Double Impact.

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Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
« Reply #88 on: September 11, 2018, 03:30:28 PM »
Nowadays if you can't pick up chicks the problem ain't the chicks.

Average face with killer body will get you laid without having to say much of anything.

One of my closest friends had the same issue and then he met his wife, who had a similar issue with talking, they were doing it 6 times a day.

Now, if you asked him he'd tell you he wished he could take back all those years because now he knows exactly what to say.

If I could give any advise, from a guy who had as much success as the next guy, sweet-talking a girl is a skill that takes years to hone. Keep at it until you get comfortable.

Dassit.


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« Reply #89 on: September 11, 2018, 04:16:48 PM »
He was 5’4” to Lou’s 6’5”. That’s an automatic loss in the game of life.

franco became a successful chiropractor, he also laughs at any jabs about his height so i think he did alright

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Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
« Reply #90 on: September 11, 2018, 05:43:08 PM »
how did franco lack charm?  he didn't seem awkward like lou

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Compared to Arnold, “Franco is like a baby, he comes to me (Arnold) for advices”.
He didn’t have Arnold’s “devil may care”  attitude that Arnold had. Because he was from Sardinia, his English was t as good, and he seemed to not exude confidence in himself due to that as well as always being Arnold’s side kick. Especially when both of them were interested in a certain busty brunette from the 70s. Now, of course, compared to Ferrigno, Columbu had more charm. This was due to Columbu’s “aw shucks” small town European attitude, compared to Ferrigno’s insecurity due to his hearing impairment.

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« Reply #91 on: September 11, 2018, 07:17:10 PM »
Compared to Arnold, “Franco is like a baby, he comes to me (Arnold) for advices”.
He didn’t have Arnold’s “devil may care”  attitude that Arnold had. Because he was from Sardinia, his English was t as good, and he seemed to not exude confidence in himself due to that as well as always being Arnold’s side kick. Especially when both of them were interested in a certain busty brunette from the 70s. Now, of course, compared to Ferrigno, Columbu had more charm. This was due to Columbu’s “aw shucks” small town European attitude, compared to Ferrigno’s insecurity due to his hearing impairment.


there can only be one alpha and if one guy is arnold, the other guy will be the beta

being the beta next to arnold doesn't mean he lacked charisma, that's like saying a guy can't be funny because he isn't as funny as seinfeld

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« Reply #92 on: September 11, 2018, 07:36:47 PM »
You need to have some game in order to get women. If you have zero game, you'll struggle badly even if you look like male model.

You have no idea what you are talking about

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Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
« Reply #93 on: September 11, 2018, 07:38:36 PM »
So we've all met a handful of ultra-skanky, mental-unstable, daddy issues-ridden women who brazenly demand sex from a lot of men they meet and will suck you off within 5 minutes on a first date or let you fuck their asses with no condoms. Every cross-section of the general population has its outliers and peculiarities.

The majority of women are not like that. They have the ability to turn "off" their sex drive in a way men can't. They don't produce sperm. They don't need to ejaculate. They can go months, even years, without masturbation or getting laid, by choice. Just ask around, it's not even that rare.

Men can't do any of those things. You know it as well as I do, since you're not a woman. Quit wacking off for 4 weeks and tell me how that works for you. In other words, womens' needs are things they have a lot of control over. Mens' needs are things that we're saddled with due to our hormones (of which we have roughly 10x as much of as the average female, meaning testosterone) and external genitals. We have it WAY harder than they do when it comes to the sexual sphere. Any douche will say yes to some broad who offers him a couple of hours of her time.

I wouldn't fully agree.

Other chemicals than hormones regulate sex drive,it's a complex setting. Particularly neurotransmitters.
And yes,we have loads of testosterone,but their sexuality is driven by estrogen,which they have boatlods.

Women are really horny perverse freaks.If you fuck and talk a lot of them,you understand that.
Many if them actually watch internet porn and get off.

Off course,this not represent all of them,but it's certainly not a minority.

But yes,generally their sex drives are slightly lower and different than ours,and particularly because of societal rules they hide  such behaviour. This gives them an edge,like you said.

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« Reply #94 on: September 11, 2018, 07:48:10 PM »
I wouldn't fully agree.

Imagine how much I care if you agree with me or not.

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Other chemicals than hormones regulate sex drive,it's a complex setting. Particularly neurotransmitters.

Not really. Many of those things are not precursors to arousal but rather activated by it, particularly if sexual intercourse is potentially on the horizon or in progress, which is why masturbation doesn't release dopamine like doing it with someone else does.

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And yes,we have loads of testosterone,but their sexuality is driven by estrogen,which they have boatlods.

100% false information. Estrogen contributes zero, zilch, nada to sex drive. Ask any MTF transsexual whether their drive went up or down when they got on the female synthetic hormones. Now ask anyone who's shot testosterone the same question. The reason women are hornier on their period is because their test levels temporarily get a bump. Testosterone IS the sex drive hormone, period. We have ten times more, so we're ten times hornier. This isn't rocket science.

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Women are really horny perverse freaks.If you fuck and talk a lot of them,you understand that.

But you don't, so how would you know? I don't buy it, dude. Tell that to all the guys losing their jobs and freedom for making the dumbass mistake of thinking the girl they were out on a date with was into them the way they were into her.

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Many if them actually watch internet porn and get off.

How many would admit to doing so? Because most guys I know openly do. Oh, they're "shamed" to admit it? Or they just don't particularly get off on videos of men shoving their inches of manbeef up a woman's rectum or oral cavity on a computer. Because I suspect it's the latter.

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Off course,this not represent all of them,but it's certainly not a minority.

And you can't back any of this up, but I can back up my points easily:

https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/men-and-women-cant-be-just-friends/

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But yes,generally their sex drives are slightly lower and different than ours,and particularly because of societal rules they hide  such behaviour. This gives them an edge,like you said.

That's not what I said at all and nothing you said in this reply was factually accurate or anchored in reality. It's about as truthful as the average pundit's views on conservatism in America on CNN's primetime newsmagazines.

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Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
« Reply #95 on: September 11, 2018, 07:50:46 PM »
decent looking guy with zero game



LOL.  What happened to BJ1982?

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Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
« Reply #96 on: September 11, 2018, 08:11:10 PM »
Nowadays if you can't pick up chicks the problem ain't the chicks.

Average face with killer body will get you laid without having to say much of anything.

One of my closest friends had the same issue and then he met his wife, who had a similar issue with talking, they were doing it 6 times a day.

Now, if you asked him he'd tell you he wished he could take back all those years because now he knows exactly what to say.

If I could give any advise, from a guy who had as much success as the next guy, sweet-talking a girl is a skill that takes years to hone. Keep at it until you get comfortable.

Ask them questions, and pretend to be interested in what they are blabbing about.  Simple.  Women love to talk nonstop about themselves.

Dassit.



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Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
« Reply #97 on: September 12, 2018, 03:30:45 AM »
You have no idea what you are talking about

I knew someone who was like this. Tall and quite handsome but very socially awkward. Didn't lose his virginity till he was around 23 and not through choice. I was being hyperbolic with the term "male model" though.

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Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
« Reply #98 on: September 12, 2018, 10:56:09 AM »
My two cents:
If I had to choose between looks and game, I'd choose game...You cant change your looks, but you can become a master at spitting game, and you can always make more money...
If you are decent looking guy, or just not repulsive, and are quick witted, you can pretty much talk your way into any girls pants.
I've seen it a thousand times....

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Re: Being a decent looking guy..with zero game..
« Reply #99 on: September 12, 2018, 11:14:44 AM »
Talking and talking to a girl are two different things.

When talking to girl, if you want to be successful, you need to say the things she wants to hear.

Need not talk about the dew point in Chattanooga or the Kr to USD exchange rate.

Concentrate on her and on you telling her (creatively) how pretty she is without getting sexual and looking like you're horny as fuck.