Anyone here ever leave their wife and kids for another woman?

[El Diablo Blanco]

Here is my experience: I am a fit gym rat. Wife is not....very, very pretty and 15 years younger. Also 20 lbs overweight.

We had no sex life. I even made an excel spread sheet documenting her constant denial. However, before I left her I explained why and how we could save our marriage. We have an 11 year old son together.

First, I cleaned up my side of the street. I was fat myself, but now stay close to contest shape. I explained to my wife that she deserved someone she was attracted to and we should separate if she did not want to be with me physically. She decided she wanted to stay together and our sex life turned around.

It is not great, but I can live with it. She is a sweet, kind and giving woman, makes a shit ton of money and is generous. She does very little nagging and I do not allow us to argue. She is an excellent cook and mother.

She is still 20 lbs overweight and allergic to the gym, but also has a 10 face. I am old and ugly.

All in all I stay with her. Sure, I wish I had a fit bikini competitor for a wife, but you can't have everything. Taken as a whole, my wife simply has too many good qualities for me to leave her (which I would do BEFORE cheating).

You have to look at a marriage in its totality, weigh all the good points against the bad.

I like your honesty.  It must be tough to walk away, especially with a kid. 

[Tapeworm]

So U are Soldier of Fortune 2  

"Fortune" is overstating it a bit but it's a living.

[IroNat]

Give your wife orgasms and they will want to have sex.

Figure out what it takes to give them an orgasm, then do that.

A lot of them just don't get off in standard fashion and they get frustrated.

[IroNat]

"No, I'm not doing anal again".

"No, I'm not swallowing your cum again".

"You're hurting me!" (meanwhile only 4 out of my 7-inch "python" has gone past the hymen).

"I'm tired".

"I have a headache".

"I have to work tomorrow".

I could literally write a fucking 600-page book of excuses.

Got to get HER off. 

Concentrate of that.  Get her off before you get yourself off.

Figure out what it takes to get her off.

Most likely she doesn't have an orgasm during the sex.  Fakes it or doesn't even fake it.

[Irongrip400]

Got to get HER off. 

Concentrate of that.  Get her off before you get yourself off.

Figure out what it takes to get her off.

Most likely she doesn't have an orgasm during the sex.  Fakes it or doesn't even fake it.

I always munch box first (lick the clit).  Do that until she cums then stick it in.  It doesn't matter how long you last from that point on.

[IroNat]

Some women are not easy to get to orgasm.

It's the way they are put together and each one is different.

They won't tell you either most of the time because often they don't know themselves so you have to figure it out.

[Primemuscle]

Give your wife orgasms and they will want to have sex.

Figure out what it takes to give them an orgasm, then do that.

A lot of them just don't get off in standard fashion and they get frustrated.

Right on. Another thing most women like is a guy who is romantic and loving during intercourse. The wham bam thank you ma'am type, not so much.

[The Keto Kid]

Probably do what most unhappy married guys do, hit an Asian massage parlor a couple times a week.

[IRON CROSS]

Just bonk her, spread your DNA & go 

[El Diablo Blanco]

It seems it's all about sex with you guys.  I think living with the same woman for a while even if you bust your load is hard to do.  If there's no passion for her but you still fuck her where's the joy?  Same with Asian massage parlors.  I can just jerk myself off.  Something about having hot passionate sex with a woman totally into you and being totally into her is what's needed but even then these things fizzle out.  My buddy will soon learn that she'll get boring just like his wife did.  Women just fucking change once you totally commit to them, move in together or make any sort of long term thing with them.  It's almost like you need to make them think you're out the door each time to make them act all passionate before they get boring as fuck.