Congrats to you but you aren't dead yet. If you are still in your 30's or 40's there is a good chance you will end up divorced.
From the moment we are conceived we are all on a path to death.
50% of all businesses fail, but people keep trying. 50% of the population will get cancer but people still get treatment regardless of the survival percentage. At some point the majority of people will get screwed over by their employer but they still go to work.
Most odds for anything (worth having) in life arent in our favor but you cant let failure stop you from trying to beat the odds.
Marriage today isnt what it was 50 years ago, but neither are people the same. The culture changes.
I understand where you guys are coming from when you say marriage is a bad choice but you need to examine all the factors that lead to such high divorce rates, and it's not always the fault of the woman. Some people cant be married but they cant admit that to their self.
I have a friend who was married 3 times by the time he was 33. I told him he needed to examine his life before he got married for the 3rd time and he got offended and stopped talking to me.
Most dont realize what they're getting involved with when they are getting married, they are clinging to a fairy tale of romance and relationship. They dont realize the strains and stresses of life change people and relationships. Family issues change relationships.
Good relationships require work, even bad relationships need effort to become toxic.
All that said I wish you the best in life and relationship and I respect your opinion, because I know you've developed it from the truth that you've experienced.
