Honestly its all about increasing your odds, work at a place that has tons of women, most people end up meeting their partner in the work place (working on a cruiseship theres well over 500 women employees, not to mention 4,000 passengers a week coming through), join multiple dating sites (doesn't take much time, just scroll through pics when bored swipe right when you see a hot girl, maybe you'll match), go to places that women enjoy going to (beaches, parks, malls, cafe's, hiking areas), just by doing this you'll increase your odds tremendously. Have a good sense of humor. That's all I got for you dude.