this. it wasn't "a shithole".
it's a decent sized place, he'd just have to stop being lazy, entitled stoner and fix it up/decorate it a bit.
He apparently has 3 children
Most houses in Holland are not very big, around 120 m2, or 1200 square feet
Judging by the video it's not the house which is the problem....he does not present himself well, to put it mildly.....