The beginning of a new relationship? Is Vince the husband?
Nope, I am. Because I am taller than he is and he's got a soft looking, clean shaven face.

Also, how many bald wives have you met.
I think most guys in samesex marriages refer to each other as husband...as in, I pronounce you husband and husband. Or in the case of two women getting married to each other, it's wife and wife. See how that works?
Here's something for you to ponder. What would folks who consider themselves to be sexually versatile, if it were husband and wife or wife and husband, call each other?