Women are attracted to looks, money and status, id argue all 3 are shallow, in an ideal world she would love your personality, your inner world, blah blah blah but life isnt like that.Whatever woman you are with now would have turned you down when you met if simply the outer layer of your skin showed a couple of decades of wear from when you did.You are the same person inside in 20 years, but you are judged on exterior material.In reality most women settle down now in late twenties early thirties with men they wouldnt have gone near in their prime.They "settle", because they have to.
Likewise every guy here settled for the hottest and youngest woman that they percieved they could get, which is just as shallow.Both sexes are shallow and we are all judged on things we wish were not so base level and primal, but at the end of the day its biology.We are only a few dna % from chimps, life is short and everyone is out to get the best they can that fires up the dopamine receptors in the brain like the 2 girls in the video above.
There‘s no mystery how love works, everything is already out there in the literature yet people still want to believe in things like "soulmate" etc due to all the social programming.
Men love idealistically, women love opportunistically. Pack it up.
Men can not love a woman like a woman can love a man and vice versa. Both sexes have a different look at love/reproduction.
Each sex has developed a sexual strategy that combined best suits the survival of next generation. Pack it in.
It‘s what nature hardwired us for. Just like gravity, there are nature‘s laws in human psychology that are present in each of us all around the world to make sure the best genes are passed on.
Whether this is the end result it depends on the options and circumstances. Let me begin.
Just because your wife married you for example didn‘t necessarily mean you were the one she really wanted deep down. This is a hard pill to swallow for many people. Sometimes some guy can stir up more emotions in a woman in 1 hour than some other dude she‘s married to can in his whole life. Natural desire can not be negotiated. I came to win.
