One more rep is the only gay man here that is universally liked and respected.
I have also come to respect Bay. I tend to think that living your life around your, for lack of a better term, "sexuality" makes you not just less of a man but less of a person. That goes for both sides of the coin, i.e., heterosexual/homosexual.
Both One and Bay read as being of above average intelligence gentlemen with varied interests in life. You don't have to agree with everything to get along with people, be it movies, music, food, cars or even sex, but you do have to make an effort to be agreeable in disagreeing.
I don't think I've ever read where One has been anything but a gentleman.