for the sake of your kid/kids you should get back to 170.Speaking as someone who lost parents young, nothing is more painful.
I'm not sure how lean Coach can be at 58 [or how lean ANYONE can be, with age], but if he got to 170-lb in condition, he would look amazing. That is pretty massive for his height. There was a guy who I knew in 2001 who was 5'6" and 180-lb, and he was considered huge for a 20-year-old. It's not like 180-lb would even be small for 5'10". Georges St-Pierre was doing most of his best competitive work in fighting at around 185-lb, and he is 5'10.5". He looked like a mini-bodybuilder. As I said, I don't know how lean Coach can be at his age [i.e., does he want to take whatever is necessary to be extremely lean at his age], but 170-lb at even 15% body fat would be a solid physique for any age. And there is no reason why he couldn't be at least that, if not in much better shape.
I didn't know that about your parents, Army of One. That's sad.
