Your buddy from work doesn't figure into the discussion. A real drummer is versed in all styles. Neil Peart knew he was a fraud and was honest about it, hence his taking up of drum lessons later in life. Buddy Rich could play Rush songs, no question about it.
In the simplest of terms, you haven’t a clue.
Did Peart blow a load on your mom on the Caress of Steel tour or something?
Guess you are also unaware that Buddy praised Neil’s talent and playing back when Peart was a young man. Said he was quite remarkable.
It’s why Rich’s family CHOSE Neil to helm the Burning For Buddy sessions. He was their first choice. They well know how much respect Rich had for Peart.
Just stop.