I could not agree more with you. However, there are a lot of people who would see this differently if the rent-boy was a rent-girl, IMO. But again, wrong is wrong, there's no denying that.
Many people of all walks of life will seek to salve their own egos, their own, if you will, souls, by attempting to downplay that which is wrong because of what they do in secret.
In plain speak, you can lead a horse to water (i.e., the truth) but a pig will just muddy the water. People can be pigs.
I shall close by pointing out that even that which we do in "secret" is known by at least one. The one doing it. I think that the whole "if it feels good do it", bullshit of the 60s has given birth to a societal changeling.
Don't think so? Just look at the liberal Media and Education. I refuse to be a pig. This is Animal Farm.
Be well.