Maybe she had other goals in life than looking feminine enough for a bunch of getbiggers?
Just an idea.
But through human history there have been examples of women doing things that are not considered feminine in other peoples eyes, women who have done things that they want to do no matter what other people think.
One can appreciate these women, salute them even. Or one can ridicule them, wanting them to stay in their place.
It's up to you.