I'm telling you, man. Their legs get skinny, their guts grow, and their tits sag. Some 40yo barslut is going to proudly strip down in front of you, and if you haven't transitioned toward that moment in gradual steps you're going to freak out what lurks beneath. You are in a situation where you are trying to get wood and not think about hairless cats, and her appearance isn't helping either.
It's like crossing the border into Mexico. Omfg people actually live like this?! I didn't know how good I had it.
They say that men age like wine and women age like milk. They say it like it's a good thing for the man. It isn't.