Methyl Mike seems to thing dating children is OK. 
Tongue in cheek escapes you. How sad. I will add the following- legally its up to the girls parents morally shame on the 30 year old. What the fuck do a 14 and 30 year old have in common? I hesitate to use the word manipulation here but incant see "love" happening any other way in such a case. I will also say the way most americans view love and sex is very dated and unique to this country. For example my boss a ways back was from india and she was married at 12 to a 34 year old she had never met until their wedding day. It was an arranged marriage. She said it was wonderful and that they never fought. She also said in india a marriage is more like a business contract and that she and her husband were more like business partners than lovebirds. She was 60 at the time and presumably shes dead now but i liked working for her. So does my story somehow validate the view that 12 year olds are marryable? I say no but i concede any argument because indont have kids and im not in love with any so what the fuck could i possibly know? Personally the thought of a grown man fucking a child makes me physically violent. A 14 year old is not far from 12 so a 30 year old and 14 is to me an abomination.