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Re: Dating a single mom
« Reply #75 on: September 23, 2020, 11:40:02 PM »
Dating single moms is a form of cuckoldry. Just enjoy the sex and dump her when u get bored or find something better. This is sadly the worst time to be in a LTR especially with a single mom. And it’s going to get even worse thanks to SM and feminist agendas.

Read “The rational male”. This book should be mandatory for every guy when he starts dating. It’s never too late to read it though. Might shed some light on intersexual dynamics.

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Re: Dating a single mom
« Reply #76 on: September 24, 2020, 12:08:20 AM »
Idk if you need a book. Just be fair and expect fair. Make an effort to earn her every day and look for evidence of the same.  Everyone is entitled to an occasional crappy mood but do not ignore red flags. Have no communication landmines - be able to discuss anything without it causing bad feelings. Be sexually compatible, kinks and all, and fuck her brains out frequently. Don't waste time on a jalopy of a relationship.

Geez you could write a book about this stuff.

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Re: Dating a single mom
« Reply #77 on: September 24, 2020, 01:17:30 AM »
dated dozens of single moms.

typically they either have their shit together, or they absolutely don't.

honestly, single moms tend to be way bigger hoes than girls without kids, that shit bothers me way more than the kids do usually.

if youre gonna date a single mom long term, you gotta like the kid as well. i mean like the kid as if it's your own, or else it ain't gonna work and youre just gonna resent the kid for getting in the way of you 69ing in peace and fucking the girl on full volume in any room you want 7 nights a week and walking around the house naked afterwards.

sounds shallow, but it's an honest concern. i've dealt with it in the past, and thank god ive gotta dime peace with no kids now so i can at least enjoy the next 8-9months.

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Re: Dating a single mom
« Reply #78 on: September 24, 2020, 05:33:14 AM »
Lots of great stories in this thread.  We are getting back to our prime instincts as a culture which isn't good but it's just the way it is.  Society's laws, rules, ethics and common decency have broken down to the point where all a person can expect anymore is to get laid.  There will be very few successful marriages in the future, mostly from people very orthodox conservative religions.  We aren't living in our grandfather's day anymore.

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Re: Dating a single mom
« Reply #79 on: September 24, 2020, 05:45:03 AM »
I've posted about this here many times.

Dating/banging a single mom?... great.

Live with or marry her?... NEVER. 

I will also confirm this from my own experience... single moms usually give you great sex.

 

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Re: Dating a single mom
« Reply #80 on: September 24, 2020, 07:34:59 AM »
Primemuscle is sitting at home reading this thread wondering why the OP isn’t hitting on the 11 year old son.


Lol truth

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Re: Dating a single mom
« Reply #81 on: September 24, 2020, 09:47:43 AM »
Single moms are the worst.

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Re: Dating a single mom
« Reply #82 on: September 24, 2020, 09:52:58 AM »
Single moms are the worst.
In relationships but the best in bed.

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Re: Dating a single mom
« Reply #83 on: September 24, 2020, 11:27:49 AM »
I dated a beautiful Nicaraguan women about 8 years ago. She was single with two daughters and shared custody with the father. The father would have the daughters for two weekends out of every month. I never made an attempt to be around her when she had her daughters, just on the weekends that she didn't have them.

Man, could she fuck really well. Best sex I ever had and could suck the chrome off a trailer hitch. The girl would do whatever necessary to please her man sexually. And wow, could she really cook well.

But as many people already know, latina women have the WORST tempers. She would look for ways to start an argument when we weren't fucking. So I knew the relationship was going to be short lived. It lasted about two months before I got the fuck out of dodge.

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Re: Dating a single mom
« Reply #84 on: September 24, 2020, 08:05:09 PM »
If she’s “the one” might as well knock her up and close the deal. She will put all the attention on the baby pissing off the bastard child making her,you,baby numero uno. If this suggestion even remotely scares you or you question it get out now while you still have some of your prime years left to land a childless hottie.

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Re: Dating a single mom
« Reply #85 on: September 24, 2020, 08:46:21 PM »
I haven't read the whole thread but I once dated a single mom. Unless she's financially very stable her first and foremost concern is her kid. She's looking for
someone to take care of her and her child or children. That's not bad in and of itself
but it's something to keep in mind. Then there's the inherent conflict with the ex. Assuming he's a real father that cares about his kids you are going to have to be dealing with him as long as you are with her. Also, you have to decide right away
what kind of authority you want to have over the kids. The older they are the harder
it is.

Life is all about trade offs. There are a lot more, a hell of a lot more, when you get involved with a single mother. You just have to determine if it's worth it. If she's worth  it. But if anything, wait until the honeymoon period ends and the initial thrill has calmed down. The deeper you go in the harder it is to pull out. And I mean that in every way.

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Re: Dating a single mom
« Reply #86 on: September 24, 2020, 11:06:21 PM »
If she’s “the one” might as well knock her up and close the deal. She will put all the attention on the baby pissing off the bastard child making her,you,baby numero uno. If this suggestion even remotely scares you or you question it get out now while you still have some of your prime years left to land a childless hottie.

Why not have 3 kids with her? The bastard child will be outnumbered.

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Re: Dating a single mom
« Reply #87 on: September 25, 2020, 03:28:29 AM »
I dated a beautiful Nicaraguan women about 8 years ago. She was single with two daughters and shared custody with the father. The father would have the daughters for two weekends out of every month. I never made an attempt to be around her when she had her daughters, just on the weekends that she didn't have them.

Man, could she fuck really well. Best sex I ever had and could suck the chrome off a trailer hitch. The girl would do whatever necessary to please her man sexually. And wow, could she really cook well.

But as many people already know, latina women have the WORST tempers. She would look for ways to start an argument when we weren't fucking. So I knew the relationship was going to be short lived. It lasted about two months before I got the fuck out of dodge.
I've heard this a lot about latinas.

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Re: Dating a single mom
« Reply #88 on: September 25, 2020, 03:56:29 AM »
I've heard this a lot about latinas.

Which part?

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Re: Dating a single mom
« Reply #89 on: September 25, 2020, 05:06:22 AM »
dated dozens of single moms.

typically they either have their shit together, or they absolutely don't.

honestly, single moms tend to be way bigger hoes than girls without kids, that shit bothers me way more than the kids do usually.

if youre gonna date a single mom long term, you gotta like the kid as well. i mean like the kid as if it's your own, or else it ain't gonna work and youre just gonna resent the kid for getting in the way of you 69ing in peace and fucking the girl on full volume in any room you want 7 nights a week and walking around the house naked afterwards.

sounds shallow, but it's an honest concern. i've dealt with it in the past, and thank god ive gotta dime peace with no kids now so i can at least enjoy the next 8-9months.

Dear ESF.

You have also previously gifted us with the description of the extensive training you provide to a women in order to make  her able to deep throat the full length of your member. However necessary such training might be, I can assume it would be disadvantageous to have a single mom's child walk in on such an act.

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Re: Dating a single mom
« Reply #90 on: September 25, 2020, 06:35:04 AM »
Dating single moms is a form of cuckoldry. Just enjoy the sex and dump her when u get bored or find something better. This is sadly the worst time to be in a LTR especially with a single mom. And it’s going to get even worse thanks to SM and feminist agendas.

Read “The rational male”. This book should be mandatory for every guy when he starts dating. It’s never too late to read it though. Might shed some light on intersexual dynamics.


Yes. The book is available online PDF too.


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Re: Dating a single mom
« Reply #91 on: September 25, 2020, 06:50:02 AM »

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Re: Dating a single mom
« Reply #92 on: September 25, 2020, 07:00:04 AM »
Problem is she has this 11 year who is the most punchable shit in the fucking world.  She caters to his every demand and I can see him manipulating the shit out of her.  Will claim shit like he's scared to sleep so he can stay up late and total cock blocks me.  The kid cries at a drop of a hat.  Cries at everything.  Luckily he is a fortnite fiend and will play it all day but then every other day will have some serious meltdown playing so she bans him from playing for a day or two so now he ends up being a wedge between us during that time.

Sounds like this kid might be special-needs (ADHD, Autistic, Hypersensitivity issues etc). If that's the case, YOU WILL NOT WIN this one. Those kids are needy for good reason my friend. Best bet is to respectfully walk away from the relationship if you aren't able to assimilate to these circumstances. Because unless she is a dirty whore, she will never pick you over him or demand much change from him. Especially since his father walked away, she most likely feels very guilty for him being fatherless and you possibly making her pick between you and him (even if indirectly) will only make her despise you.

Best of luck.

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Re: Dating a single mom
« Reply #93 on: September 25, 2020, 07:52:08 AM »
Which part?

He must mean the bad temper part. Latinas will fuck you dry, especially if you're a white guy. But the flip side is the emotions and temper tantrums that are a pain in the ass to deal with. The latina I was with would let you put your dick wherever you wanted to if you gave her enough tequila...

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Re: Dating a single mom
« Reply #94 on: September 25, 2020, 08:05:56 AM »
He must mean the bad temper part. Latinas will fuck you dry, especially if you're a white guy. But the flip side is the emotions and temper tantrums that are a pain in the ass to deal with. The latina I was with would let you put your dick wherever you wanted to if you gave her enough tequila...

They don't call Latinas "spicy" for nothing.  Their bad/hot temper is directly correlated to their sexual prowess.  Higher testosterone perhaps?

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Re: Dating a single mom
« Reply #95 on: September 25, 2020, 08:08:09 AM »
If she’s “the one” might as well knock her up and close the deal. She will put all the attention on the baby pissing off the bastard child making her,you,baby numero uno. If this suggestion even remotely scares you or you question it get out now while you still have some of your prime years left to land a childless hottie.

Very bad advice.

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Re: Dating a single mom
« Reply #96 on: September 25, 2020, 09:05:49 AM »
They don't call Latinas "spicy" for nothing.  Their bad/hot temper is directly correlated to their sexual prowess.  Higher testosterone perhaps?

most of the wild sex I had, the women were a little crazy. Not latinas though.

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Re: Dating a single mom
« Reply #97 on: September 25, 2020, 09:34:05 AM »
He must mean the bad temper part. Latinas will fuck you dry, especially if you're a white guy. But the flip side is the emotions and temper tantrums that are a pain in the ass to deal with. The latina I was with would let you put your dick wherever you wanted to if you gave her enough tequila...

This has been the last 10 years of my dating experience in a nutshell.  Amazing in bed, great cooks, generally care for you, super tight/wet/hot pussy, but they are meaner than hell and get mad so easily.  I've had several women straight up attack me with random objects and shit over a simple disagreement.  ;D

And yeah, the "spicier the better" is true.  The meanest bitches will snap your cock off with their hips.

Mexican, Puerto Rican (most violent), Cuban, El Salvadoran, Venezuelan, Columbian (the worst attitudes), Guatemalan, Peruvian... I've dated a lot of latin chicks.  I absolutely love the way they look and act when they are in a good mood.  But once they get pissed off (which takes very little) it's a very bad situation.

That's right, most love anal and will fuck your brains out for hours.  They can be very aggressive in bed, almost too much.  They will suck you off, let you do whatever you want to them in bed and cook you the best breakfast you ever had.  But don't you dare try to argue with them or tell them what to do.  Those are fightin words!  ;D

They aren't worth it, i've almost caught a few cases from getting into fights with them.  Simply stiff arming a Mexican broad to get away from her attacking you with a knife is enough to get arrested.  I'll take my chances with another "species".

Currently dating a half Flip/Thai chick that has curves.  She's a bit boring but i don't think she will ever try to knife me.

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Re: Dating a single mom
« Reply #98 on: September 25, 2020, 09:38:54 AM »
most of the wild sex I had, the women were a little crazy. Not latinas though.
Crazy women are the best in bed because they go all out with no self control.  Emotional girls are great in bed but lousy in relationships.  The problem is if you hit and split the crazy emotional girls may come after you.

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Re: Dating a single mom
« Reply #99 on: September 25, 2020, 10:15:47 AM »
I met my current wife when I was separated and had a 3ish year old kid.

We ended up living together, had one more kid - she'd never had one and it was only fair.

I couldn't get the vasectomy fast enough.

My son always lived with us, she raised him like her own and never showed favoritism to the one we had together.

Not only that, we had a wedding but never officially married legally.

I lucked out. She was golden with my kid but I've seen it go the other way. It's a lot of shit you don't need in a relationship.

If you aren't willing to put in the effort. Walk away. Fuck having all those dramas.