i never understood what this means, how is a person "sexy in their own way"?
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I think it's sometimes a bit of convoluted bro-self-reasoning, that goes something like:
"Given the right set of circumstances*, i.e.
nobody could
ever find out about it, I think I could probably find juuuust enough about that person 'sexy' to be able to justify the act to myself - even though I know I'm being dishonest (to myself, no less) and will almost certainly regret it the moment it's over with"
*With drugs and alcohol of course being strong contributory factors to engaging this thought-process/self-delusion