as opposed to training for a plastic trophy?
Everything under the sun is foolishness in the end

But I don't think you can really force attractiveness, as in sexual attractiveness, some will like you, some not, but trying too hard is probably not too attractive. But I'm no casanova, I just say fuck it, take it or leave it

I think preoccupation with grooming by guys is disgusting too. That's gay behavior. You can often tell if a dude is gay by their perfect eyebrows and skin and hair etc.
