Author Topic: A boys halloween costume (Read 2087 times)

Kwon · « **Reply #1 on:** October 31, 2020, 04:16:17 AM »

This right here is what's wrong with society today

The Normalization of all these things

Henda · « **Reply #2 on:** October 31, 2020, 04:44:11 AM »

Son? What happen to the days when a young laddie would be beaten up by other kids for looking like a girl?

BayGBM · « **Reply #3 on:** October 31, 2020, 05:16:14 AM »

No. I want to be as open minded and progressive as the next person but this is not appropriate. I would not let my son wear a costume like that. I would gently remind him that he is male and the character is female. We will find him a male character for his costume. This is not about hate or bigotry, it’s about teaching him normative behavior. There are many things I would not let my child do: dressing up as a Nazi would not be acceptable... dropping out of school is also unacceptable... drugs, no.

Parents have the incredible power and responsibility to instill values and expectations in their children—ones that will open doors for them (or seal their fate). So many parents drop the ball. When I was in middle school and my brother was prepping for college I remember telling him that I had no plans to go to college so his college plans were inapplicable to me. Mom overheard that exchange and she was not having it. Over time she gently reminded (brainwashed) me that all her hard work was to give us the opportunity of education so that we could realize our potential. The seed she planted took root; I not only went to college I earned a terminal degree, which gave me a career and income I could not envision when I was in middle school. Parenting is a job... and many people simply fail at it.

tatoo · « **Reply #4 on:** October 31, 2020, 05:32:45 AM »

Quote from: BayGBM on October 31, 2020, 05:16:14 AM

No. I want to be as open minded and progressive as the next person but this is not appropriate. I would not let my son wear a costume like that. I would gently remind him that he is male and the character is female. We will find him a male character for his costume. This is not about hate or bigotry, it’s about teaching him normative behavior. There are many things I would not let my child do: dressing up as a Nazi would not be acceptable... dropping out of school is also unacceptable... drugs, no.

Parents have the incredible power and responsibility to instill values and expectations in their children—ones that will open doors for them (or seal their fate). So many parents drop the ball. When I was in middle school and my brother was prepping for college I remember telling him that I had no plans to go to college so his college plans were inapplicable to me. Mom overheard that exchange and she was not having it. Over time she gently reminded (brainwashed) me that all her hard work was to give us the opportunity of education so that we could realize our potential. The seed she planted took root; I not only went to college I earned a terminal degree, which gave me a career and income I could not envision when I was in middle school. Parenting is a job... and many people simply fail at it.

parenting is a job... 100% correct, perfectly said!... have you thanked your mother for that?

BayGBM · « **Reply #5 on:** October 31, 2020, 05:52:15 AM »

Quote from: tatoo on October 31, 2020, 05:32:45 AM

parenting is a job... 100% correct, perfectly said!... have you thanked your mother for that?

I have massaged her feet and publicly and privately thanked her for every ass whipping she ever gave me to keep me on the right path. I tell my staff all the time that mom’s name should be printed next to mine on the degrees that hang in my office because she is just as responsible for them being there as I am.

IroNat · « **Reply #6 on:** October 31, 2020, 06:16:26 AM »

What say you Ton?

Hypertrophy · « **Reply #7 on:** October 31, 2020, 06:40:52 AM »

Quote from: BayGBM on October 31, 2020, 05:16:14 AM

No. I want to be as open minded and progressive as the next person but this is not appropriate. I would not let my son wear a costume like that. I would gently remind him that he is male and the character is female. We will find him a male character for his costume. This is not about hate or bigotry, it’s about teaching him normative behavior. There are many things I would not let my child do: dressing up as a Nazi would not be acceptable... dropping out of school is also unacceptable... drugs, no.

Parents have the incredible power and responsibility to instill values and expectations in their children—ones that will open doors for them (or seal their fate). So many parents drop the ball. When I was in middle school and my brother was prepping for college I remember telling him that I had no plans to go to college so his college plans were inapplicable to me. Mom overheard that exchange and she was not having it. Over time she gently reminded (brainwashed) me that all her hard work was to give us the opportunity of education so that we could realize our potential. The seed she planted took root; I not only went to college I earned a terminal degree, which gave me a career and income I could not envision when I was in middle school. Parenting is a job... and many people simply fail at it.

Great post! Had a similar experience with my parents.

LurkerNoMore · « **Reply #8 on:** October 31, 2020, 06:48:37 AM »

2 years to make that shit?

bigkid · « **Reply #9 on:** October 31, 2020, 06:54:17 AM »

Quote from: BayGBM on October 31, 2020, 05:16:14 AM

No. I want to be as open minded and progressive as the next person but this is not appropriate. I would not let my son wear a costume like that. I would gently remind him that he is male and the character is female. We will find him a male character for his costume. This is not about hate or bigotry, it’s about teaching him normative behavior. There are many things I would not let my child do: dressing up as a Nazi would not be acceptable... dropping out of school is also unacceptable... drugs, no.

Parents have the incredible power and responsibility to instill values and expectations in their children—ones that will open doors for them (or seal their fate). So many parents drop the ball. When I was in middle school and my brother was prepping for college I remember telling him that I had no plans to go to college so his college plans were inapplicable to me. Mom overheard that exchange and she was not having it. Over time she gently reminded (brainwashed) me that all her hard work was to give us the opportunity of education so that we could realize our potential. The seed she planted took root; I not only went to college I earned a terminal degree, which gave me a career and income I could not envision when I was in middle school. Parenting is a job... and many people simply fail at it.

Great post

G_Thang · « **Reply #10 on:** October 31, 2020, 07:31:43 AM »

Must be Thailand

BayGBM · « **Reply #11 on:** October 31, 2020, 07:52:16 AM »

chaos · « **Reply #12 on:** October 31, 2020, 08:07:34 AM »

Quote from: BayGBM on October 31, 2020, 05:16:14 AM

No. I want to be as open minded and progressive as the next person but this is not appropriate. I would not let my son wear a costume like that. I would gently remind him that he is male and the character is female. We will find him a male character for his costume. This is not about hate or bigotry, it’s about teaching him normative behavior. There are many things I would not let my child do: dressing up as a Nazi would not be acceptable... dropping out of school is also unacceptable... drugs, no.

Parents have the incredible power and responsibility to instill values and expectations in their children—ones that will open doors for them (or seal their fate). So many parents drop the ball. When I was in middle school and my brother was prepping for college I remember telling him that I had no plans to go to college so his college plans were inapplicable to me. Mom overheard that exchange and she was not having it. Over time she gently reminded (brainwashed) me that all her hard work was to give us the opportunity of education so that we could realize our potential. The seed she planted took root; I not only went to college I earned a terminal degree, which gave me a career and income I could not envision when I was in middle school. Parenting is a job... and many people simply fail at it.

One of the best posts I've read from you, except for the inclusion of "gently" a couple of times.

Humble Narcissist · « **Reply #13 on:** October 31, 2020, 10:51:46 AM »

Quote from: LurkerNoMore on October 31, 2020, 06:48:37 AM

2 years to make that shit?

But daily training so the boy will wear it.

wes · « **Reply #14 on:** October 31, 2020, 03:10:15 PM »

That little homo copied my costume !!

Marty Champions · « **Reply #15 on:** October 31, 2020, 04:21:35 PM »

Wes invented that costume n god kicked him from heaven

Walter Sobchak · « **Reply #16 on:** October 31, 2020, 04:36:44 PM »

I’m not sure I understand?

Is that a boy in a girl’s costume wearing makeup?

Or is that a little girl who identifies as a “boy”?

This country needs a parenting enema.

pellius · « **Reply #17 on:** October 31, 2020, 04:59:35 PM »

It's all fun and cute until you are gang-raped by a bunch of Muslims.

wes · « **Reply #18 on:** October 31, 2020, 05:09:12 PM »

Quote from: Marty Champions on October 31, 2020, 04:21:35 PM

Wes invented that costume n god kicked him from heaven

Well it`s a step up from a bunny suit with a hole in the ass! LOL

BB · « **Reply #19 on:** October 31, 2020, 05:17:57 PM »

Kid's father posted that - https://www.reddit.com/user/bulok .

From the little bit I've read in his posts, he was raised a religious Filipino, and seems to be raising his kid loosely now. Also seems to be uptight about Asians worshipping whites.

Some quotes about the kid being raised a ? -

" My son is a gender non conforming 7 year old, wears feminine clothing has really long hair but he enjoys a lot of these things and loves riding his bike. He met some kids similar age in our neighborhood and they’ve all been riding together through the quarantine. They would come by our house and wait for him almost everyday. That is until they found out he’s a boy. Suddenly they stopped coming. I thought nothing of it until we were coming home and saw some of the kids. My kid rushed out the car to get his bike and catch up to them. Wasn’t long before he came back. He said their parents called them in. I felt so sad for my kid.

We are in the south, deeply conservative middle class area. These folks I know are hardcore bible folks. I wouldn’t be surprised if they are distancing their kids from him. "

"Not my choice dude. He picks his own shit" .

https://www.reddit.com/r/OldSchoolCool/comments/jahjl5/bike_gang_1970s/gaoh5qj/?context=3 .

Taffin · « **Reply #20 on:** October 31, 2020, 06:17:28 PM »

Quote from: LurkerNoMore on October 31, 2020, 06:48:37 AM

2 years to make that shit?

That's about enough time to raise a covey of fully-fledged adult peacocks to slaughter, so... yeah....

The Scott · « **Reply #21 on:** October 31, 2020, 06:24:44 PM »

Quote from: pellius on October 31, 2020, 04:59:35 PM

It's all fun and cute until you are gang-raped by a bunch of Muslims.

Excellent point, brother! This is an awful thing to do to a child. The parents shoud also be shunned by civilized society.

Walter Sobchak · « **Reply #22 on:** October 31, 2020, 06:38:09 PM »

Quote from: pellius on October 31, 2020, 04:59:35 PM

It's all fun and cute until you are gang-raped by a bunch of Muslims.

That’s an odd fantasy bro....

The Scott · « **Reply #23 on:** October 31, 2020, 06:46:08 PM »

Quote from: Walter Sobchak on October 31, 2020, 06:38:09 PM

That’s an odd fantasy bro....

It is not his fantasy, my friend It is the reality of many young boy in islimic lands The men dress the boy as girls and have them "dance" for them. They are called "Chai Boys", or Bacha bazi.

It gets worse but then islime is filled with pedophiles and pedophilia is sanctioned by that disgutiing "faith".
Pellius is good man.

pellius · « **Reply #24 on:** October 31, 2020, 10:47:20 PM »

Quote from: Walter Sobchak on October 31, 2020, 06:38:09 PM

That’s an odd fantasy bro....

Not a fantasy -- real life played out constantly.