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« on: December 30, 2020, 12:27:44 PM »
3 BODYBUILDERS WHO COMMITTED SUICIDE
9. August 2020 by Mr.Berg
Many people suffer with those issues. Battling with issues is a common and normal thing in life. Strength stars like Travis Ortmayer, Chris Duffin and Chad Aichs used to discuss about those topics in the past.

I researched and found three famous bodybuilders (Chuck Sipes, Vern Weaver, Joe Meeko) who committed suicide officially. There’s an another bodybuilder named Luke Sandoe who apparently killed himself in 2020, but there’s no really bulletproof source or any documents. Thus I would call it a rumour instead of a fact.

Chuck Sipes (1932 – 1993)

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Chuck Sipes the real bodybuilding hero: Mr. America, Mr. Universe and Mr. World. He was not only a bodybuilder, Chuck Sipes was also a role model. He changed, helped, and shaped lives of troubled men and youngster.

Chuck’s beginning is documented in a Flex article, published September 1990, called ‘Man Of Iron’. Chuck Sipes started training in his school days. While his classmates were sleeping, he made his way to the schoolyard an hour before school started and performed pull-ups and dips. During the breakfast his classmates smoked and ate unhealthy stuff, but Chuck Sipes followed a different lifestyle and went to the nearest supermarket to stock up on healthy and high-protein foods.

The school time ended and he didn’t know where to go. Feeling lost and looking for a challenge, he joined the US Army as a paratrooper.

Chuck pursued an occupation and many hobbies away from bodybuilding. His recreational activities included water skiing, snow skiing, climbing, cycling and hiking.

“I love the mountains, and if I had the time, I would climb the Alps,” said Chuck Sipes.

Death:
About Chuck’s way of attempting are different sources. I had heard that on his first attempt he cut his wrists (not cut off) but he survived. There are no really sources except by word of mouth. Other sources indicate when he took his life he used a gun- but I cannot confirm it. Another source is telling that Chuck hung himself, so simply we do not know.

Joe Meeko (1961 – 2009)
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Joe Meeko w. girlfriend Renee Knappenberger (Author of picture: unknown )
Joe Meeko was born on October 25, 1961. It seems there are some sources indicate that he was born in the year 1960.

Joseph John Meeko comes originally from North Catasauqua, Pa. Furthermore he graduated at Catasauqua Highschool in 1978 and Lehigh County Community College 1980. He was religiously and loved to attend churches like the Herrickville Wesleyan and Hope Baptist Church in Herrickville. [1]

He made a name himself in the world of bodybuilding and was able win titles such as 1984 Mr. America AAU in Pasadena, CA (1st Place Medium Class + Overall Winner) and 1988 Mr. Universe AAU in Tuscon, Arizona (1st Place Heavyweight Class + Overall Winner, where Joe was at his best at 5 ft. 7-3/4, 235 lbs.).

At the age of 27 he retired from bodybuilding competition, but he never lost
the passion working out. For the past years Joe offered free bodybuilding
advices through internetforums and some of his wisdoms are well-documented
in muscle-magazines.

After Joe died, his friends Bob and Val Barker posted the following on the
oldschool-bb forum www.ironage.us: “Joe had endured hardships in the recent
years including marital difficulties, car accidents, injuries and complications from Lyme
disease. According to a longtime friend of Joe and the family, Joe passed away on Dec.8 at 11 p.m. by his
own choice. He called me earlier in the day and he expressed
sadness over events and what he saw as failures but was repentant before God
and made his peace. He was saddened that he heard from very few friends and
felt very alone. It’s easy for those who were not part of the situation to judge his actions
and so it is best to consider not only the closing days of his life but his life
in its entirety, which included a distinguished career in competitive bodybuilding.
We place our faith in a loving God, in whom Joe trusted.”

Vern Weaver (1937 – 1993)

1963 Mr America Vern Weaver(Photo by Doug White)
He started with weightlifting at the age of 16. Jules Bacon, 1943 Mr. America,
worked at the barbell company “York Barbell” and used to deliver
any kind of weight lifting equipments to the customers. In August, 1953
Jules Bacon drove to the Weaver’s property to deliver a “York Big 12
Special”

Vern Weaver remembered the day very well and wrote: “He got out of the car,
opened the trunk, and dumped a 100-pound box on the ground. Then he handed
me the bar and other accessories. As he was getting back into his car,
Jules said, ‘I hope you will win Mr. “A” someday!’.”

Vern Weaver was very athletic and for the 100-yard dash he was able to run 10.3 seconds, but weight training was the only regular physical training he ever followed.

Somewhere I Belong
“Training was the big thing in my life. As soon as I got home from school I would dive
into the cellar for a few hours with the weights.My family thought I was crazy: they didn’t know why I had to train.”

His thoughts and road to the top is well-documented in the Strength & Health magazine November 1963. He felt quite often lost in life and wanted to belong somewhere. Several times he tried his luck with becoming an actor and tried learning from the bests like Tuesday Weld and Paula Prentiss. But again he realized that an acting career was not for him and his searching for a purpose in life seems to be endless, but later he realized that bodybuilding could solve some of his problems.

1963 Mr. America: A Dream Come True
Vern Weaver faced the greatest competitors ever such as Harald Poole, Bill Seno and Craig Whitehead. After winning the title he was just numb. He was not able to realize what happened. He felt very proud and privileged to have been chosen as Mr. America 1963. It seems he finally found the reason for “the being”. He wrote endless articles for muscle magazines. Gave training tips and inspiration!

In Newspaper ‘York Daily Record’ appeared an article about Vern Weaver’s death:
“He died of self-inflicted wounds at Gifford Pinchot State Park. He died between 4:15 p.m. and 8 p.m.”

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« Reply #1 on: December 30, 2020, 12:51:38 PM »
Chuck Sipes played the banjo, painted beautiful paintings ( I have a print), and he liked to shoot antique firearms. Also the wilderness was a friend of his. I believe he was depressed about what he thought was the end of his marriage from what one guy told me. I won't say the details told to me because I don't know if they are true or not. He used to take juvenile delinquents for days on end into the wilderness to survive in some kind of court approved program. From what I heard he really made a difference with some of them. His training was basic and heavy. In 1959 he was benching over 500lbs raw in the gym.

Joe Meeko use to correspond with anyone who wrote him. He was very generous with his time and yes kind with his lifting advice. He use to sell grips I think he called power hooks. He was known to give them away for free to many guys who were email friends.

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« Reply #2 on: December 30, 2020, 02:33:31 PM »
Tortured souls.

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« Reply #3 on: December 30, 2020, 02:45:23 PM »
In a sense, bodybuilders who abuse steroids, insulin and other potentially life threatening substances and dies as a result of this has committed suicide.

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« Reply #4 on: December 30, 2020, 03:25:29 PM »
Sipes hung himself. He got involved involved with a younger woman he was working with, and it destroyed his family. His wife left, the girls sided with the mother, and weren't dealing with him, and that's when he decided to kill himself.

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While not a big name, Tommy Fannon who started the once very popular Outlawpowerlifting board, and was a decent lifter, took his own life over the summer. No reason given, but 2020's been rough on everyone.

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« Reply #5 on: December 30, 2020, 03:31:58 PM »
Joe Meeko was a great guy.  He was a friend of wes, and I got to know him very well on the Ironage forum.  He had Lyme Disease.  So does Canadian singer Avril Lavigne.  Canadian singer Shania Twain has it too.  ???  My mom just told me that today.

Lyme Disease is pretty nasty, from what I understand.

Another bodybuilder committed suicide, maybe around 2011...he was a Mr. USA around Arnold's era, IIRC, and was 5'10" and probably 230-lb in his competitive heyday.  Shotgun to the head, I think.  There are definitely some Getbiggers on here who will know who I'm talking about.

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« Reply #6 on: December 30, 2020, 03:36:53 PM »

Another bodybuilder committed suicide, maybe around 2011...he was a Mr. USA around Arnold's era, IIRC, and was 5'10" and probably 230-lb in his competitive heyday.  Shotgun to the head, I think.  There are definitely some Getbiggers on here who will know who I'm talking about.

Steve Michalik. It was a gunshot, from a revolver I heard.

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« Reply #7 on: December 30, 2020, 03:37:15 PM »
Joe Meeko was a great guy.  He was a friend of wes, and I got to know him very well on the Ironage forum.  He had Lyme Disease.  So does Canadian singer Avril Lavigne.  Canadian singer Shania Twain has it too.  ???  My mom just told me that today.

Lyme Disease is pretty nasty, from what I understand.

Another bodybuilder committed suicide, maybe around 2011...he was a Mr. USA around Arnold's era, IIRC, and was 5'10" and probably 230-lb in his competitive heyday.  Shotgun to the head, I think.  There are definitely some Getbiggers on here who will know who I'm talking about.

Steve Michalik was his name.  Somehow, I think a Y may have been in his name.

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« Reply #8 on: December 30, 2020, 03:40:07 PM »
Steve Michalik. It was a gunshot, from a revolver I heard.

That's him!

Wow - so that is how his name is spelled?  I was almost sure I got that wrong.  Initially I thought that was a Polish name, but I may have been confusing him with Pete Grymkowski [sp?].

I sometimes wonder how I misremember things:

gunshot = shotgun.  Not really, but close enough.  I can see why I messed that up in my head.

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« Reply #9 on: December 30, 2020, 03:41:08 PM »
Michalik will probably be most famous to the non-bodybulding world for being the subject of this pulp story on the dangers of steroids. It's long considered a classic of sports writing here in the States -

http://www.bronxbanterblog.com/2013/10/01/the-power-and-the-gory/ .

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« Reply #10 on: December 30, 2020, 04:03:22 PM »
Michalik will probably be most famous to the non-bodybulding world for being the subject of this pulp story on the dangers of steroids. It's long considered a classic of sports writing here in the States -

http://www.bronxbanterblog.com/2013/10/01/the-power-and-the-gory/ .

He was in a documentary about the dangers too, made within the past 10 years...it was from TLC, I think.

This video doesn't cover suicides, but features a lot of bodybuilders who died too young...they have like half the dates/ages wrong though:



Erik Fromm, I'm almost certain died in 2006.

Andreas Munzer died in 1996.  He was 31.

Mohammad Benaziza was 28 when he died, I'm pretty sure.

I think there were some other mistakes too.

The Italian bodybuilder who died in 2013...I believe Getbig killed him.  I really believe that poking fun of his conditioning was the reason he took it to the next level.

From the OP - yes, Joe Meeko's DOB has been cited as both 1961 and 1960.  His obituary says 1960, and since he graduated from high school in 1978, I'm going to assume 1960.

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« Reply #11 on: December 30, 2020, 04:07:08 PM »
Michalik will probably be most famous to the non-bodybulding world for being the subject of this pulp story on the dangers of steroids. It's long considered a classic of sports writing here in the States -

http://www.bronxbanterblog.com/2013/10/01/the-power-and-the-gory/ .

That was an incredible read. I've known way too many guys involved with drugs from being in the gyms from the late 70's to now. It's the same old story repeated. When I try to comment, the lovers of bodybuilding drugs get angry at me so for the most part I stay silent. I knew far to many that have thrown away any chance at a career, wife, family, house, health and the rest from pursuing the syringe life style.

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« Reply #12 on: December 30, 2020, 04:53:49 PM »
Steve Michalik. It was a gunshot, from a revolver I heard.

Didn't he wave it around, threatening his wife and kids for a while, then blow his brains out in front of them..?
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« Reply #13 on: December 30, 2020, 04:54:49 PM »
I still have a pair of Power-Grips that Joe Meeko sent me........damned good product and really nice of him to offer them to me as he didn`t know me from a hole in the wall.


Steve Michalik was a big influence on my training ...........Intensity or Insanity !!

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« Reply #14 on: December 30, 2020, 05:02:03 PM »
Lyme disease is highly treatable if it's caught in the early stages.  If not it can be a real problem.

If caught early with anti-biotics recovered is assured.

Some people don't recognize it and delay treatment.

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« Reply #15 on: December 30, 2020, 05:03:06 PM »
Michalik will probably be most famous to the non-bodybulding world for being the subject of this pulp story on the dangers of steroids. It's long considered a classic of sports writing here in the States -

http://www.bronxbanterblog.com/2013/10/01/the-power-and-the-gory/ .


A good read - thanks for the link

"As lethal as it was, however, Anadrol was like a baby food compared to some of the other stuff Michalik was taking. On the bodybuilding black market, where extraordinary things are still available, Michalik and some of his buddies bought the skulls of dead monkeys. Cracking them open with their bare hands, they drank the hormone-rich fluid that poured out of the hypothalamus gland"


Sounds legit  ;D
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« Reply #16 on: December 30, 2020, 05:04:28 PM »
We used to hear about Michalik back in the 70s.

He was a loon.

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« Reply #17 on: December 30, 2020, 05:05:54 PM »

A good read - thanks for the link

"As lethal as it was, however, Anadrol was like a baby food compared to some of the other stuff Michalik was taking. On the bodybuilding black market, where extraordinary things are still available, Michalik and some of his buddies bought the skulls of dead monkeys. Cracking them open with their bare hands, they drank the hormone-rich fluid that poured out of the hypothalamus gland"


Sounds legit  ;D
I just had a refreshing glass myself,along with a banana......great stuff !!

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« Reply #18 on: December 30, 2020, 05:16:48 PM »
I just had a refreshing glass myself,along with a banana......great stuff !!

Hahaha - Dude - funny you should chip into this - when I read this section it made me think of you for some reason - I sh1t you not!

"“Once I was on Hempstead Turnpike, on my way to the gym, when some guy in a pickup gave me the finger. That’s it, lights out. I chased him doing ninety in my new Corvette, and did a three-sixty in heavy traffic right in front of him. I jumped out, ripped the door off his truck, and caved in his face with one punch. The other guy in the cab, who had done nothing to me, jumps out and starts running down the divider to get away from me. I chased him on foot and was pounding the shit out of him on the side of the road when the cops pulled up in two cruisers. ‘Michalik Wes, get outta here, ya crazy fuck,’ they go, ‘this is the last goddamn time we’re lettin’ you slide.'”
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« Reply #19 on: December 30, 2020, 05:48:10 PM »
Didn't he wave it around, threatening his wife and kids for a while, then blow his brains out in front of them..?

Yeah, I'm not sure how violent it got, but from people in the know, he did try to make it very tramatic for all involved.


A good read - thanks for the link

"As lethal as it was, however, Anadrol was like a baby food compared to some of the other stuff Michalik was taking. On the bodybuilding black market, where extraordinary things are still available, Michalik and some of his buddies bought the skulls of dead monkeys. Cracking them open with their bare hands, they drank the hormone-rich fluid that poured out of the hypothalamus gland"


Sounds legit  ;D

I have a soft spot for monkey / gorilla GH stories. I always think of a bunch of men in thongs reenacting the old Faces of Death monkey brains scene. Larry Pacifico and Michalik are and were the biggest tellers of those tales. Whenever simian GH gets brought up here in the States, 99% of the time it involves those two.

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Here's the other story that was pretty popular in sporting literary circles back then too, "Anabolic Steroids - The Gremlins of Sport" by Terry Todd -

https://digital.la84.org/digital/collection/p17103coll10/id/762/rec/3 .

( Click the "view" button. It's somewhat anti-steroid, but a good read, especially for the gossip in the footnotes. It is 21 pages long though ).

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« Reply #20 on: December 30, 2020, 06:12:25 PM »
Seems like Jim Morris AAU Mr. America in 1973 took his own life in old age. Never confirmed for certain though.

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« Reply #21 on: December 30, 2020, 07:38:39 PM »
Joe Meeko was a great guy.  He was a friend of wes, and I got to know him very well on the Ironage forum.  He had Lyme Disease.  So does Canadian singer Avril Lavigne.  Canadian singer Shania Twain has it too.  ???  My mom just told me that today.

Lyme Disease is pretty nasty, from what I understand.

Another bodybuilder committed suicide, maybe around 2011...he was a Mr. USA around Arnold's era, IIRC, and was 5'10" and probably 230-lb in his competitive heyday.  Shotgun to the head, I think.  There are definitely some Getbiggers on here who will know who I'm talking about.

my niece got lyme disease over the summer, she's only 8 and was sick for about a week

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« Reply #22 on: December 30, 2020, 08:44:21 PM »

Here's the other story that was pretty popular in sporting literary circles back then too, "Anabolic Steroids - The Gremlins of Sport" by Terry Todd -

https://digital.la84.org/digital/collection/p17103coll10/id/762/rec/3 .

( Click the "view" button. It's somewhat anti-steroid, but a good read, especially for the gossip in the footnotes. It is 21 pages long though )




Thanks BB - as a result of reading that article, my New Years resolution is now to implement an isometric contraction routine, and see if I can find me some strychnine online!   ;D
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« Reply #23 on: December 30, 2020, 08:47:18 PM »
Hahaha - Dude - funny you should chip into this - when I read this section it made me think of you for some reason - I sh1t you not!

"“Once I was on Hempstead Turnpike, on my way to the gym, when some guy in a pickup gave me the finger. That’s it, lights out. I chased him doing ninety in my new Corvette, and did a three-sixty in heavy traffic right in front of him. I jumped out, ripped the door off his truck, and caved in his face with one punch. The other guy in the cab, who had done nothing to me, jumps out and starts running down the divider to get away from me. I chased him on foot and was pounding the shit out of him on the side of the road when the cops pulled up in two cruisers. ‘Michalik Wes, get outta here, ya crazy fuck,’ they go, ‘this is the last goddamn time we’re lettin’ you slide.'”

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Thanks BB - as a result of reading that article, my New Years resolution is now to implement an isometric contraction routine, and see if I can find me some strychnine online!   ;D
There`s also the old school stories about guys seeking out womens urine and dinking it for it`s "skin thinning" benefits/effects when trying to get shredded for a contest.

Nice clean healthy sane endeavor this bodybuilding !  LOL   ;D