The bottom line on benches is this......if you have the genetic propensity to build a huge/heavy bench press then you most likely will if you train hard and long enough to do so.
On the other hand,I`m pretty sure that when we or a friend we know started training,one of our/their long range goals was to bench 405 (or whatever......you pick the poundage),but sadly enough most of us never get anywhere near 405 or even 315..................it`s all genetics,the way your joint,tendons,ligaments,insertions,etc.etc. are set up.
If you can bench a lot you will,if not,then you more than likely will never do so..... as a rule............of course there are a few exceptions to that rule, but not often because a shoulder or elbow will be fucked up long before you get past a certain amount of weight.
Some people are just not destined to bench a lot of weight due to genetic limitations.