heres my summary and final 2 cents on the messages from Emily and the whole bhanks situation
What a cool gal. Marrying material. Her last message was "Brian isnt coming to Canada because I hate the cold." I get the vibe they have been dating under a year, he's in that honeymoon phase where he is treating her and her kid like gold, spending lots of dollars on them. That will wear out with him, its easy to see. The seeds of doubt are in her head already as she was pretty expressive about not understanding why bhank posts on here and what weird, she used a word here, catharsis(?) he gets from arguing with strangers online. She said some good things about him but in time she is clearly going to get tired of his shit. His best move is to fuck off from this board and live life, shes awesome.
anyhoo, with him on ignore and my promise to keep her off the board, that wraps up any interaction Ill have with him anymore.