its a social hobby I have - I usually only play Multiplayer
I don't "hang out" with men my age - most are sour, miserable, or complain about shit too much - plus most of the shit they admire is just shit you can buy like a pussyass loud motorcycle, shit for their house, shit for their TV/sittin on their ass room
I play video games when I have down time and I want to relax - I read but tend to do that more at night and to wind down - I don't go to bars, don't drink, don't try to meet strangers socially in strange setting - used to bounce , don't like drunks, don't like badasses
its just funny how many of the badasses automatically write off video games - sure nerds participate but sure do females - pro games make a lot more money than anyone ever did fixing a motorcycle up with loud exhaust so everyone will look at them - I don't need anyone to acknowledge or look at me playing vid games