sorry... but how is Jujitsu not flamingly gay?
Ask someone trained in Jiu-Jitsu in person and you'll get your answer. Or just show up at a Jiu-Jitsu class and train with them. See if you can over power someone half your size.
No one can compete successfully in the UFC without some knowledge of Jiu-Jitsu. Now unless you think fighting in the UFC is in anyway gay or effeminate...