If your home country was invaded and taking losses would you also advise “surrender”?
Yes, and work out some kind of deal with Russia (or get flattened) there is NO other choice for Ukraine.
Ukraine has about as much chance of defeating Russia, as Cuba had of defeating the USA or Taiwan has of defeating China.
The West is NOT coming to their rescue (Just like they left pro western Afghan people hanging or the student protesters in Taiwan) I feel sorry for Ukraine it's a disaster for them and the're going to be destroyed in this process. Ukraine has been led down the garden path by the West into believe they can defeat a super power i.e. Poke a 300 pound Russia bear in the eye. A bear they sleep RIGHT next door to...NOT going to happen without consequences.
For a minute put the shoe on the other foot. Was the United States not spooked during the Cuban/Russia missile crisis that Cuba was going to allow Russian military bases and Russian missiles to be located in Cuba in striking distance of the USA? So lets say in present times there's a group of nations (lets call this group of nations NUTO), and this group of nations included Russia (a superpower) as one of its main members. And NUTO has offered membership to Mexico or Canada which would then allow Russian military bases and Russian long range missiles to be stationed in Mexico/Canada right next to the good old United States.
What do you think the United States response would be to this scenario?
FYI:
The Monroe Doctrine is the best known U.S. policy toward the Western Hemisphere, the doctrine warns European nations that the United States would not tolerate further colonization or puppet monarchs.