YOU&ME! Yea! I was thinking likewise, but came to the damn dumb conclusion due to my stupidity .... that Calum was the one individual in those shots who was not fucked up and that video proved that he could have a good time staying sober while his friends got high and loaded.
That's what I would claim if I appeared before a judge in his defense!
I are dum but if I had to defend him, that's what I would tell the judge .... before they threw him back in rehab.
Once upon a time ..... I had a good friend in a Calum-like situation whom I went beyond my limits to help, but as much as I tried to help , he attempted suicide and lost an arm. (Removed from the shoulder,)
Then he can back as a one-armed druggie for more help and I declined.
One week later he was dead (a successful suicide this time out) and I was fine even though a very few accused me of not helping enough.
Since then I only help alcoholics with rides to their AA meetings.