J. Was an all around good dude.
He really loved to help others, a real giver.
I’ll never forget when he told me, “I never forgot how to please a woman. You just start with two fingers to get her set up, then you go downatairs and eat it out like it was a pot of collard greens like i tell all of my staight friends who ask me for advice...you do that and she opens up like a flower. Once that happens , then you screw. ...pretty simple.”
He lived to make others feel like they mattered.
I always just go mouth first. Teasing it. Then I go full bore.
Get the first orgasm with just mouth.
Then one finger... and soon two.
Take one leg (usually the right) and put foot/ankle on my shoulder.
Go nuts with two finger pump while pressing palm on clit.
Kiss passionately while squeezing tits. Go to kissing/sucking nipples. Go back to kissing.
Never stop the finger pump.
Clench will soon come.
Second orgasm.
Then you can screw.
Third orgasm will come easily through intercourse now that that thing has been oatmealed.
I won't stop a session unless the girl has had three.
If you have a steady, you may have to change it up from time to time, but that is another story for another time.