Dude when was the last time you’ve lived with (a) friend(s)? Like anything it can be great or not so great.
2007.
I have a hard time getting over bad experiences. Like Epic is Back said, I just won't move on anything. I'm extremely conservative in that when I find something that works - I very rarely upset the order of things.
I am in a position where my rentals will allow me to live comfortably without working for the rest of my life. I don't want to mess that up and *have* to work again.
So I'm VERY conservative. Very cautious.
On the flip side, when I do incorporate something and it works, I take to it like a duck to water.
It's that initial plunge that I struggle with.
I mean, I hadn't fucked from July 30th of last year until this June 22nd. Since then, I fucked two additional women, fooled around with another one, made out with a fifth, and cuddled a sixth two nights ok until we got into a disagreement on Indigenous culture being peaceful.
My point is, that's how I am. Very hesitant to take the plunge, then when I do and it goes well, I have very positive streaks.
But maybe that's because when I succeed, I really nail it, but when I fail, I fail big time - or just go over the mistakes in my head too much.
I tend to go "ALL IN", which can make my wins big, but my losses enormous. And traumatic.
And that...almost freezes me to the point of complete inaction.
I literally scratch my head as to why the fuck I'm even able to get women anymore. I'm 40 now, for fuck's sake. But maybe those of us who work out regularly also age a bit slower. I do feel like the steroids are helping with that.
But I need to get out of this rut, and I have been doing so. Now I need to keep the momentum going, never fall in love again, EVER, but get back to fucking regularly, and start living again.
I know several people who rent out rooms at their house (to strangers) and it doesn’t bother them at all. I know others who have rented rooms to friends and they have had good and bad experiences. I know a couple of people who can’t wait to tell everyone how much they did for someone by renting a room to them and how the renter just took “advantage” of them (whatever that means in their context).
If you’re at a spot where having a roommate and daily social interaction would be a benefit renting out a room could be beneficial to both of you, but if you like your privacy having a roommate could be challenging.
I have a few concerns...the biggest one being if she stole my big TV.
I kick back and watch Vince Goodrum OG videos on my big screen every Sunday evening. I'd shit if I lost the ability to do that because of her.