Not horrific at all. He suspected something was going on but their life, according to him, was awesome: she gave it to him pretty much every other night, great cook, always happy, went on vacation with him, never went out on girls-night-out or girls-only-vacations, great in the sack, never went to work extra early or left extra late, etc. He's completely dumbfounded as to how his ex carried out all her affairs, and how she was able to hide all of it. I mean, he told me that the only thing he found was a text from her to an unknown number asking the person to "always immediately delete texts, calls and pictures." Which is what got him inquisitive.
At least he doesn't have any kids so...
Im sorry. I misunderstood you.
I thought because you were asking how to access the sim cards of 20 year old phones from your cousins wife to confirm a pattern of serial cheating since the beginning of their marriage I assumed that it was a bad relationship.
After thinking about it I realize how foolish I sound to make such an accusation. Im glad it was a relatively good partnership but i am sorry how he found out she was cheating.