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Re: My 13 year old died on Sunday.
« Reply #75 on: December 15, 2022, 06:46:23 PM »
Brutal if true

Delete this. It’s not appropriate.

I know this your gimmick but F off.

This is a timeout offense dude.

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Re: My 13 year old died on Sunday.
« Reply #76 on: December 15, 2022, 07:04:56 PM »
Delete this. It’s not appropriate.

I know this your gimmick but F off.

This is a timeout offense dude.

Agreed, sir!

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Re: My 13 year old died on Sunday.
« Reply #77 on: December 15, 2022, 08:24:03 PM »
Sorry for your loss.

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Re: My 13 year old died on Sunday.
« Reply #78 on: December 15, 2022, 09:18:43 PM »
Brutal if true

Really ? You absolute Khunt JWB & his wife have suffered a Tragic & Terrible loss
and you want to be a Fucking Dick about -

I sincerely hope some Very painful & long lasting disease / illness afflicts you very soon.

I'm all for a bit of Banter & the verbal going at each other.
The Tragic Death of a Young Girl isnt the Time or Place.

I hope you Delete your post or The mods do & Ban you.
Fuck off Khunt

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Re: My 13 year old died on Sunday.
« Reply #79 on: December 15, 2022, 09:25:22 PM »
Why do you write like that? With caps starting each word? Why did Getbig become the Hall of sensitivity and comfort? This is suppose to be a brutal place. I'm sure Pam Smith did not mean hatm.

Also,my condolences to the OP.
I don't have any kids but I can only imagine the hurt. Sorry.

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Re: My 13 year old died on Sunday.
« Reply #80 on: December 15, 2022, 09:38:13 PM »
Why do you write like that? With caps starting each word? Why did Getbig become the Hall of sensitivity and comfort? This is suppose to be a brutal place. I'm sure Pam Smith did not mean hatm.

Also,my condolences to the OP.
I don't have any kids but I can only imagine the hurt. Sorry.

It’s not a hall of sensitivity or comfort, it’s a remnant of 30 people who have posted here through out the heyday. There are occasionally serious topics, where we treat others with respect.

If someone is taking time to post while suffering through their life trauma, without being an attention whore, at least have an ounce of decency and skip the thread.

If you feel better or find humor in Pamith’s post cool. I think Johnny Falcon was out of like with his comments. That doesn’t mean I’m right.

Shizzo took crap on here when his parents passed, and deservedly so because Shizzo has a tendency to be self indulgent, but ultimately no one really wished him further suffering when it was deemed he was telling the truth.

The OP took flak for the “they” and “female” comments and quickly addressed the issues.

If you think everything is fair game to ridicule I get it; this is Getbig after all, feel free to call other out but don’t object when we oppose someone for being an asshole.



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Re: My 13 year old died on Sunday.
« Reply #81 on: December 15, 2022, 09:41:35 PM »
Why do you write like that? With caps starting each word? Why did Getbig become the Hall of sensitivity and comfort? This is suppose to be a brutal place. I'm sure Pam Smith did not mean hatm.

Also,my condolences to the OP.
I don't have any kids but I can only imagine the hurt. Sorry.

Why do you write like you do ? Because you want to.  Me because I can & I choose to.
You can clearly read & understand no problems.

It is the Death of a young Girl & she wasn't on Getbig.

Likewise my daughter at 2yrs of age - so yes I took it personally & thought despicable.

I'm sure P Smith can answer for himself. 

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Re: My 13 year old died on Sunday.
« Reply #82 on: December 16, 2022, 01:44:12 AM »
Why do you write like you do ? Because you want to.  Me because I can & I choose to.
You can clearly read & understand no problems.

It is the Death of a young Girl & she wasn't on Getbig.

Likewise my daughter at 2yrs of age - so yes I took it personally & thought despicable.

I'm sure P Smith can answer for himself.

I think people here are always skeptical of someone posting anything that borders on normal.
There have been so many clowns on here in the past that people are conditioned to not believe something rather than take it as truth.

Posting about the death of a daughter isnt really something that has happened before (at least not while I have been here) so people are going to be suspicious.

I posted about his use of the word "female", its an odd thing to say about a daughter, that said guy is obviously in shock about whats happened so its likely in those circumstances nothing can be deemed odd

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Re: My 13 year old died on Sunday.
« Reply #83 on: December 16, 2022, 02:06:19 AM »
Speechless

You have friends here. You are not alone.

Praying for peace and healing for you and your wife


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Re: My 13 year old died on Sunday.
« Reply #84 on: December 16, 2022, 03:06:17 AM »
Damn... sorry to hear that Brother.

 :'(

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Re: My 13 year old died on Sunday.
« Reply #85 on: December 16, 2022, 04:00:43 AM »

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Re: My 13 year old died on Sunday.
« Reply #86 on: December 16, 2022, 05:37:32 AM »

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Re: My 13 year old died on Sunday.
« Reply #87 on: December 16, 2022, 06:21:38 AM »
Delete this. It’s not appropriate.

I know this your gimmick but F off.

This is a timeout offense dude.
I mean posting this serious stuff on a random internet board with anonymous posters you will have to expect some trollposting regardless what subject

ontopic sorry about your loss couldn't imagine losing my kids

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Re: My 13 year old died on Sunday.
« Reply #88 on: December 16, 2022, 06:24:27 AM »
sorry for your loss

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Re: My 13 year old died on Sunday.
« Reply #89 on: December 16, 2022, 06:25:20 AM »
It’s not a hall of sensitivity or comfort, it’s a remnant of 30 people who have posted here through out the heyday. There are occasionally serious topics, where

we treat others with respect.

If someone is taking time to post while suffering through their life trauma, without being an attention whore, at least have an ounce of decency and skip the thread.

If you feel better or find humor in Pamith’s post cool. I think Johnny Falcon was out of like with his comments. That doesn’t mean I’m right.

Shizzo took crap on here when his parents passed, and deservedly so because Shizzo has a tendency to be self indulgent, but ultimately no one really wished him further suffering when it was deemed he was telling the truth.

The OP took flak for the “they” and “female” comments and quickly addressed the issues.

If you think everything is fair game to ridicule I get it; this is Getbig after all, feel free to call other out but don’t object when we oppose someone for being an asshole.





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Re: My 13 year old died on Sunday.
« Reply #90 on: December 16, 2022, 11:14:56 AM »
Brutal if true? Is that what everyone is upset about… that doesn’t bother me at all.

I don’t post here often anymore guys and only checked getbig once in a while after I became a parent but I am 51 years old and have been on the site since 1997 believe it or not.

I was here before the whole forum got erased one year in the early 2000’s.

I was interested in the bodybuilding gossip and never really got into the underbelly of getbig etc and drifted out of it.

However, there are some people here who I have PMed over the years that I like as people and wanted to share my situation with.

Hell, even people like Coach, who I rarely agree about anything on outside of bodybuilding stuff, is a person I still liked interacting with and I always enjoyed his stories about his son when he was young and how he was excelling at baseball etc and I hoped to be a parent one day which finally happened at age 38… shit, even lately I have been asking Coach to get a CAC score done on his heart just in case he has any heart disease.

I even used getbig to announce the death of an Australian bodybuilder from the 90s only the elders would know about but many people PMed me thanking me for announcing it since they loved the guy and had lost touch with him (he was the most likable person I ever knew in bodybuilding and maybe even general life… RIP Adrian Chronis).

My wife and I are really in a bad place right now and I am rambling as you can see but this thread has helped me a little this week as I knew it would so thanks to everyone and have a great Olympia weekend I just purchased the live stream.


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Re: My 13 year old died on Sunday.
« Reply #91 on: December 16, 2022, 11:59:31 AM »
Terrible news. Prayers to you and your wife.

I had a friend that died of Influenza Type A.


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Re: My 13 year old died on Sunday.
« Reply #92 on: December 16, 2022, 12:14:20 PM »
Sorry to hear about all this. Keep posting here, you have a bunch of people here willing to hear you out as you deal with this.

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Re: My 13 year old died on Sunday.
« Reply #93 on: December 16, 2022, 12:14:35 PM »
Sorry for your loss man. Condolences to you and your family.
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Re: My 13 year old died on Sunday.
« Reply #94 on: December 16, 2022, 12:19:50 PM »
Brutal if true? Is that what everyone is upset about… that doesn’t bother me at all.

I don’t post here often anymore guys and only checked getbig once in a while after I became a parent but I am 51 years old and have been on the site since 1997 believe it or not.

I was here before the whole forum got erased one year in the early 2000’s.

I was interested in the bodybuilding gossip and never really got into the underbelly of getbig etc and drifted out of it.

However, there are some people here who I have PMed over the years that I like as people and wanted to share my situation with.

Hell, even people like Coach, who I rarely agree about anything on outside of bodybuilding stuff, is a person I still liked interacting with and I always enjoyed his stories about his son when he was young and how he was excelling at baseball etc and I hoped to be a parent one day which finally happened at age 38… shit, even lately I have been asking Coach to get a CAC score done on his heart just in case he has any heart disease.

I even used getbig to announce the death of an Australian bodybuilder from the 90s only the elders would know about but many people PMed me thanking me for announcing it since they loved the guy and had lost touch with him (he was the most likable person I ever knew in bodybuilding and maybe even general life… RIP Adrian Chronis).

My wife and I are really in a bad place right now and I am rambling as you can see but this thread has helped me a little this week as I knew it would so thanks to everyone and have a great Olympia weekend I just purchased the live stream.

Everyone deals with loss and grief differently. If posting on Getbig helps get you through a difficult time, post and ramble on as much as you like. Enjoy the Olympia live stream. It should be interesting.

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Re: My 13 year old died on Sunday.
« Reply #95 on: December 16, 2022, 12:28:11 PM »
  sorry to hear this.
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Re: My 13 year old died on Sunday.
« Reply #96 on: December 16, 2022, 03:23:19 PM »
Everyone deals with loss and grief differently. If posting on Getbig helps get you through a difficult time, post and ramble on as much as you like. Enjoy the Olympia live stream. It should be interesting.

Wise words Prime. I hope you will be watching the live stream too.

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Re: My 13 year old died on Sunday.
« Reply #97 on: December 16, 2022, 03:42:35 PM »
Wise words Prime. I hope you will be watching the live stream too.

I agree. I hope prime is willing to treat himself to the live stream this year, he deserves it.

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Re: My 13 year old died on Sunday.
« Reply #98 on: December 16, 2022, 04:04:17 PM »
Brutal if true? Is that what everyone is upset about… that doesn’t bother me at all.

I don’t post here often anymore guys and only checked getbig once in a while after I became a parent but I am 51 years old and have been on the site since 1997 believe it or not.

I was here before the whole forum got erased one year in the early 2000’s.

I was interested in the bodybuilding gossip and never really got into the underbelly of getbig etc and drifted out of it.

However, there are some people here who I have PMed over the years that I like as people and wanted to share my situation with.

Hell, even people like Coach, who I rarely agree about anything on outside of bodybuilding stuff, is a person I still liked interacting with and I always enjoyed his stories about his son when he was young and how he was excelling at baseball etc and I hoped to be a parent one day which finally happened at age 38… shit, even lately I have been asking Coach to get a CAC score done on his heart just in case he has any heart disease.

I even used getbig to announce the death of an Australian bodybuilder from the 90s only the elders would know about but many people PMed me thanking me for announcing it since they loved the guy and had lost touch with him (he was the most likable person I ever knew in bodybuilding and maybe even general life… RIP Adrian Chronis).

My wife and I are really in a bad place right now and I am rambling as you can see but this thread has helped me a little this week as I knew it would so thanks to everyone and have a great Olympia weekend I just purchased the live stream.

Ramble on, whatever it takes.

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Re: My 13 year old died on Sunday.
« Reply #99 on: December 16, 2022, 04:19:44 PM »
From the influenza A virus.

They weren’t vaxed for Covid or flu either.

They were type one diabetic though, and every virus they ever caught had taken longer and longer to recover from compared to the last one.


Sorry.   That’s terrible.  Hope you ca. find peace in time.