Tim you bring up a good point in that parents should be listening to their children more. But when should they allow life altering decisions?
Why can a 10 year decide to change their sex but they can’t buy alcohol, tobacco, fireworks, drive, vote , sign a legally binding contract, etc…
Do you know the depression and suicidal rates for teen girls is higher than ever and it’s not about issues like basic needs being met (having enough food to eat dinner or having shelter).
Why do you think we teach people eating disorders like anorexic are bad and that you need to love and accept yourself yet we teach the exact opposite for sexual identity?
I don't think you can compare a kid starving themselves because they think society says that's the only way to be desirable, and a kid knowing that they are a boy or a girl.
Are boys and girls different? At age 5 do most boys act a certain way and most girls act a different way? At 5 you knew that you were a boy and it wasn't because you knew you had a penis. It wasn't because your testicles were producing testosterone, because they weren't. It was because your brain was wired a certain way. So why is it so hard to believe that the way the brain is wired can sometimes not match the sexual organs?
10 years olds are not changing sex. They're being allowed to present themselves as the gender they see themselves. When puberty kicks in, with the recommendation of a doctor, they take puberty blockers. If they change their mind, then puberty was simply delayed. Then when they are older, after many years of living as their desired gender, and again with the recommendation of a doctor, they can take hormones.
Most of the revulsion some people have towards trans women is that they don't look quite feminine enough. Puberty blockers prevent that. The suicide rate in trans kids increases at puberty because their bodies are changing in a way that goes against their self image. Puberty blockers prevent that. Puberty blockers for trans men eliminate the need for top surgery. And puberty blockers are reversible.
If you would like a real life example, watch this youtube clip from 8 years ago
and then a recent follow up (from Fox News of all things)
https://www.foxnews.com/video/6307583800112