This was Avesher message to Em:
"I have zero interest in coming near you, none. Am I mean to you? Absolutely. Why? Because you are stupid, plain and simple. You live in a world of denial over what Brian says and does online. If you took some time to read what he posts you would obviously comprehend you married a complete loose cannon with a LONG history of arrests for violence, including domestic violence. Notice I didnt say convictions, I said arrests. He blatantly brags about his steroid and drug use on getbig which is beyond ironic considering you run the drug court. Right this second, days after getting married he is challenging a getbigger saying he will go to New York and stomp his head.
I have lived every second of my life with a chip on my shoulder against arrogant people. I will do anything to make their lives difficult, and Brian is the most arrogant human I have encountered in my 50 plus years. If he cared about you, would he be goading me into coming there? He doesnt care one bit about puttin you in danger (duh thats obvious). I have nothing to lose. No wife, no kids, no family and totally comfortable in jail. Brian just thinks Im some fat 60 year old with Parkinsons (his words). Im not arrogant, not one bit, but Brian, due to his giant ego, cant wrap his head around what Ive been through in life and what Im capable of. Karma is going to deliver a massive dent in Brians life, its inevitable, hes too shitty of a person for it not to.
As for you, none of us on getbig can comprehend why you would marry such a fucking disgusting violent arrogant mouthy bald hideous looking piece of trash. Like,...look at that last guy you dated, the good looking one with great hair, great build and cool to talk to (I talked to him multiple times). To go from that to,....Brian,....wow thats not a step down thats a fall from a 40 story building. We have discussed this in depth and can only come up with you have an unmatched level of desperation not to be alone, or, you are in it for the long run and when he beats you up and goes to jail you will get the house and every thing else.
We hope it is the second one.
In the end, I do what I want because I can and because I dont give one single shit about the repercussions. But Brians big ego doesnt care, so let the chips fall where they may. And, I wouldnt do a single thing to harm you,...will I be mean to you, yup, cause you made a brutal decision putting your life and your kids in eventual danger.
ps. Also look at pics of yourself pre Brian and look at your pics now, especially that youtube video for the drug court. You used to be quite attractive, now you just look frazzled, sad and with a deer in the headlights look. Step back, take a long hard look at yourself and for gods sake, read what Brian writes online. That is not a sane man, trust me, as a mentally unwell man myself, its easy for me to see."
