13 Things 90% Of Men Don't Know About Single Mothers

[IroNat]

I'm never having kids. Fuck that. The second I hear someone's kid crying in public, I get the hell out of there. It's impossible to find peace and quiet anywhere these days.

It's completely different when it's your own kid.

[bhank]

I cant stand kids

Write down the pros and cons of having kids, I dare you

My son climbs on me and constantly ask me how big he is and when will he be bigger than his sisters and when can we go down to the basement and train. He always ask me how big is Daddy. He also loves to swim with me in the pool and will ask me do you think I can swim to the shallow end from here (He can actually swim no floaties 3/4 the length of the pool at 3) he does mini laps across the pool he can tread water. He likes to play a hose game where he just spray you with a cold hose. He also loves going to the beach and makes me stand right where the waves are breaking on us holding his hand for hours. He then ask when we can go back to snowshoe to snowboard. He wants a popsicle half a dozen times a day and always ask me to sit with him and watch cartoons or to take him outside to play with the chickens he makes me play with whis action figures with him and battle it out good guys vs bad guys. It sucks you had a falling out with your son and don't see your grandkids I think that is why youa re so bitter and mean. Personally my son is the joy of my life swimming and playing in the pool with him is my favorite thing.

[IroNat]

My son climbs on me and constantly ask me how big he is and when will he be bigger than his sisters and when can we go down to the basement and train. He always ask me how big is Daddy. He also loves to swim with me in the pool and will ask me do you think I can swim to the shallow end from here (He can actually swim no floaties 3/4 the length of the pool at 3) he does mini laps across the pool he can tread water. He likes to play a hose game where he just spray you with a cold hose. He also loves going to the beach and makes me stand right where the waves are breaking on us holding his hand for hours. He then ask when we can go back to snowshoe to snowboard. He wants a popsicle half a dozen times a day and always ask me to sit with him and watch cartoons or to take him outside to play with the chickens he makes me play with whis action figures with him and battle it out good guys vs bad guys. It sucks you had a falling out with your son and don't see your grandkids I think that is why youa re so bitter and mean. Personally my son is the joy of my life swimming and playing in the pool with him is my favorite thing.

Very nice to hear your positive interactions with your son.

[Phantom Spunker]

It's completely different when it's your own kid.

I know. I've volunteered with the feral ones in my city before, hoping to prevent them from turning into adult monsters, and I have nephews I spend a lot of time with. I just think it's a doomed endeavour, though. Yes, biology will kick in and it might improve my life, and I could reasonably argue that if I do a good job, it might improve the lives of others. But taking everything into consideration, I'm not convinced it's really in the child's interest to be brought into this world. I'll leave mindless reproduction to the lower species.

[joswift]

My son climbs on me and constantly ask me how big he is and when will he be bigger than his sisters and when can we go down to the basement and train. He always ask me how big is Daddy. He also loves to swim with me in the pool and will ask me do you think I can swim to the shallow end from here (He can actually swim no floaties 3/4 the length of the pool at 3) he does mini laps across the pool he can tread water. He likes to play a hose game where he just spray you with a cold hose. He also loves going to the beach and makes me stand right where the waves are breaking on us holding his hand for hours. He then ask when we can go back to snowshoe to snowboard. He wants a popsicle half a dozen times a day and always ask me to sit with him and watch cartoons or to take him outside to play with the chickens he makes me play with whis action figures with him and battle it out good guys vs bad guys. It sucks you had a falling out with your son and don't see your grandkids I think that is why youa re so bitter and mean. Personally my son is the joy of my life swimming and playing in the pool with him is my favorite thing.

he sounds a fucking pain in the ass


Get him some friends his own age, you only have a year left before hes fucked for life

[Kwon]

[Gym Rat]

I'm never having kids. Fuck that. The second I hear someone's kid crying in public, I get the hell out of there. It's impossible to find peace and quiet anywhere these days.

My kids weren't allowed to speak in restaurants and the like. They could get our attention and whisper.
They are fine/respectful adults today in their late 20's.
Never had one issue in public when they were small (outbursts or anything).  Its all in the parenting...
Most are braindead...

[joswift]

My kids weren't allowed to speak in restaurants and the like. They could get our attention and whisper.
They are fine/respectful adults today in their late 20's.
Never had one issue in public when they were small (outbursts or anything).  Its all in the parenting...
Most are braindead...

My dad brought us up like that
Parents today let their kids run riot
They tell them to behave themselves about 7 or 8 times then give up

Kids dont have any boundaries

My dad didnt have to even say anything to keep us in check, he gave us "the look"

[Phantom Spunker]

My kids weren't allowed to speak in restaurants and the like. They could get our attention and whisper.
They are fine/respectful adults today in their late 20's.
Never had one issue in public when they were small (outbursts or anything).  Its all in the parenting...
Most are braindead...

For the most part, I agree, and good parenting is vital, but you could still end up with a nutcase like Hankins or a potato like Pamith just by accident of birth. It's all one big roll of the dice. Even if successful in raising a promising young kid, unless you're rich and can afford elite private schooling, you either hide them away from the world and risk stunting their development, or you have to send them to interact with the rest of society and hope they don't end up being stabbed to death aged 13 by some fucking street rat in Nikes and a hoodie.

The enormity of the task is too much for me. I'm certainly not saying people are wrong to have kids or to want to enrich their lives in that way, but I don't think it's the right thing for me based on my own incomplete moralizing and in recognition of my personality probably not being suited to it.

[Dave D]

My son climbs on me and constantly ask me how big he is and when will he be bigger than his sisters and when can we go down to the basement and train. He always ask me how big is Daddy. He also loves to swim with me in the pool and will ask me do you think I can swim to the shallow end from here (He can actually swim no floaties 3/4 the length of the pool at 3) he does mini laps across the pool he can tread water. He likes to play a hose game where he just spray you with a cold hose. He also loves going to the beach and makes me stand right where the waves are breaking on us holding his hand for hours. He then ask when we can go back to snowshoe to snowboard. He wants a popsicle half a dozen times a day and always ask me to sit with him and watch cartoons or to take him outside to play with the chickens he makes me play with whis action figures with him and battle it out good guys vs bad guys. It sucks you had a falling out with your son and don't see your grandkids I think that is why youa re so bitter and mean. Personally my son is the joy of my life swimming and playing in the pool with him is my favorite thing.

You hold your sons hand for hours while you post here?

Dude I’m sure you spend time with you son but what you think it is and what really takes place is the equivalent of your world record being set.

[Gym Rat]

For the most part, I agree, and good parenting is vital, but you could still end up with a nutcase like Hankins or a potato like Pamith just by accident of birth. It's all one big roll of the dice. Even if successful in raising a promising young kid, unless you're rich and can afford elite private schooling, you either hide them away from the world and risk stunting their development, or you have to send them to interact with the rest of society and hope they don't end up being stabbed to death aged 13 by some fucking street rat in Nikes and a hoodie.

The enormity of the task is too much for me. I'm certainly not saying people are wrong to have kids or to want to enrich their lives in that way, but I don't think it's the right thing for me based on my own incomplete moralizing and in recognition of my personality probably not being suited to it.

Yup, you never know what comes out of the "ball batter / egg concoction", roll of the dice.
Luckily we live in the 95% white suburubs of NH, not much crime around here. Basically ZERO joggers where I am..
Its lovely... And the few who live here are great and well off/hard workers... (Normal people)..

[deadz]

I cant stand kids

Write down the pros and cons of having kids, I dare you

Happy to have a son to carry on my name and also receive what I’ve worked for when I’m dead. People with two and three children are NUTS!

[Hulkotron]

My dad brought us up like that
Parents today let their kids run riot
They tell them to behave themselves about 7 or 8 times then give up

Kids dont have any boundaries

My dad didnt have to even say anything to keep us in check, he gave us "the look"

I don't have kids but I notice this with my friends' children.  Like at restaurants they'll bring a fucking board game or something (probably because the kid won't leave the house without a promise of playing with something) and they invariably make a mess and a scene with it.

[Dave D]

It’s crazy that children don’t act like adults.

[joswift]

My son climbs on me and constantly ask me how big he is and when will he be bigger than his sisters and when can we go down to the basement and train. He always ask me how big is Daddy. He also loves to swim with me in the pool and will ask me do you think I can swim to the shallow end from here (He can actually swim no floaties 3/4 the length of the pool at 3) he does mini laps across the pool he can tread water. He likes to play a hose game where he just spray you with a cold hose. He also loves going to the beach and makes me stand right where the waves are breaking on us holding his hand for hours. He then ask when we can go back to snowshoe to snowboard. He wants a popsicle half a dozen times a day and always ask me to sit with him and watch cartoons or to take him outside to play with the chickens he makes me play with whis action figures with him and battle it out good guys vs bad guys. It sucks you had a falling out with your son and don't see your grandkids I think that is why youa re so bitter and mean. Personally my son is the joy of my life swimming and playing in the pool with him is my favorite thing.

things that never happened

I havent fallen out with my son, we just have a mutal agreement we dont hang around with each other.

You on the other hand stole your dads money and touched up your brothers kids...

[Kwon]

My dad brought us up like that
Parents today let their kids run riot
They tell them to behave themselves about 7 or 8 times then give up

Kids dont have any boundaries

My dad didnt have to even say anything to keep us in check, he gave us "the look"

That's because our parents could slap/spank us or belt us in the 60s and 70s

Parents can't do that today (unless they are Chimpions)

[Irongrip400]

I cant stand kids

Write down the pros and cons of having kids, I dare you

You might be happier without them, but you’ll never have as much joy as you do with them. Hard to explain.

[joswift]

You might be happier without them, but you’ll never have as much joy as you do with them. Hard to explain.

I have one, I also have 2 grandchildren

Never been a big fan of Joy.

[Irongrip400]

I have one, I also have 2 grandchildren

Never been a big fan of Joy.

LMAO, alrighty then.


It wasn’t two children, originally, was it?

[mac33]

True, societal needs should be prioritized over individual needs.

In end, you don`t have a stable society if it is not based on family because it follows the natural order of things designed by God.

[Bevo]

You want kids especially a son so they can grow up to be an IFBB pro bber, nothing is more prestigious than having a pro card

My daughter will compete in bikini

[Humble Narcissist]

Find a nice unmarried girl under 30 with 3 kids from 3 different men and settle down.

You'll never be happier.

Only a real strong man would do that.

[IroNat]

A son who is an IFBB schmoe and a daughter who is an Only Fans star would be the ideal.

[joswift]

LMAO, alrighty then.


It wasn’t two children, originally, was it?

No, my wife has a son same age as mine but I dont count him...

[The Keto Kid]

I've dated a single mom, I was in a unique situation,  all she wanted literally was to fuck my brains out, she was fresh out of a horrible marriage, was on a rebound and was horny. I never once went to her house, I never met her kids, basically I was there to just get her MOJO back, this went on for a few months and eventually I moved to Vegas. She was there to see me off, I was with my buddy, he was at my house helping load up my uhaul trailer, I'm inside the trailer moving stuff around, I just hear him say "who the fuck is that" I peek out of the trailer door and it's her, she was smoking hot and rich by the way she pulled up in her SL 500 Mercedes convertible.  She comes and hugs, me shes crying a little saying "I don't want you to go" I look over at my buddy he's just smiling shaking his head at me. Anyway that was a unique situation, but in general dating a single mom would likely be extremely difficult