She's got you so bamboozled that you think buying a new house is your own idea instead of her idea to claim half of it.
It really doesn't work that way. I just get bored after a few years. I have moved around a lot. NYC, DC,VA,NC, HI I just get bored eventually and want to try something different I have bought and sold a lot of properties. Nothing is decided but she had an interview for a dream job in Raleigh and I don't want to miss my kids sports. Honestly if I didn't have a son in NC I would probably leave NC but since my son is in Raleigh during the school year and good jobs and more stuff to do is there considering it. Going to my sons wrestling practice here was a blast I could go to all of them the next 15 years if I lived in Raleigh. You should always consider all your options. I may just get a van and go live down by the river.