Who cares what these guys do in their private lives? Well it doesn't if it's something you approve of, but if not, then it does.
For me personally, it's simply off putting when a guy has a career of being fondled by homos on stage and I question the "straightness." Just like with Kai, he's just disgusting - and imagine somehow watching the show and be subjected to his ultra-gay routine lol.
I don't actually care, what's it to me? I don't really care about the reputation of the pageant either lol. I'm also not huge on universal "morals" either but that's another discussion.
He has one hell of a physique either way.