I have never understood the male obsession with figuring out how to impress women. I don’t think I’m anything special at all, but I’ve had beautiful women my entire life and been married A while to a total smoke show. Even after almost 20 years she dotes on me (but admittedly she is hyper feminine and values the traditional wife role.. she does work and earn a shit ton but does it from one of our home offices)
I seriously think not giving a fck is key when meeting women. When I was single if I saw a woman I wanted to talk to - I fckn spoke to her. If she reciprocated cool and if not I simply said “fck off dike” 😂 😆
times have changed a lot in just the last 10 years or so, the young people now mostly meet on dating apps or social media so it has never been more important for guys to look good
lets say you average looks and have a good job and a lot of confidence, that could easily get you dates in the past
but now these young girls have countless taller and handsome guys in their instagram messages trying to date them, and on top of that these girls tend to have their own jobs too these days, so suddenly your average looks and good job don't look so appealing to them
women are spoiled for choice because of the internet, and women have always been picky to begin with, so the result is a bunch of sexless young men
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