Here’s a way to frame it, “At this point I really am only into hookups. But I have to add I am a really friendly guy and I think we will have a lot of fun, and I am a good listener too.”
That way you can put some low key friendship vibes out there to her, but not looking for a full fledged “friend” which rings “relationship”.
Meanwhile, you can keep charming the men for the free drinks. You never know. Also, there are lots of men at the swinger parties. Just teasing but you can look if you are inclined.
that's good advice actually thanks bro
i charm men for drinks at he discos not swing parties
i'm going to a new disco today the guy who gave me it said saturdays are for me the crowd/females are 18-25
he likes milfs women in their 30s so friday is his day
by the way my ideal scenario is to have like 5 females
3 hot sex partners
one close plutonic friend
and one sweetie romantic one like in this wonderful tune, but i dont think she'd like me having 3 sex partners

other girls have told me find this all in one and i said nope then i'd be trapped
here is my song to the sweetie

i'm a deeply romantic man actually
Let her cry, for she's a lady (She's a lady)
Let her dream, for she's a child (Child)
Let the rain fall down upon her
She's a free and gentle flower growing wild
And if by chance that I should hold her (If by chance that I should hold
her)
Let me hold her for a time (Let me hold her for a time)
And if allowed just one possession
I would pick her from the garden to be mine (I would pick her from the garden to be mine)