Who cares, he threatened your family and your life. According to you, you have the legal right to take him out on the spot in the name of self defense.
Quit being so logical Dave...it doesnt belong in this thread
HOWEVER, idea....if he shows up ill blah blah threaten his wife and kid so he can legally murder me. Ill also do it in writing, hand it to him so he can present it to his lawyer, and ill do a video of myself saying i came there for those reasons which is more than enough to release him from any wrong doing
He can tell me what to write or video so he gets no charges and ill do it. I dont know american laws