People might be surprised to learn that I'm not actually anti 'trans' depending on its meaning and people keeping it to their fucking selves. I'm old school, so go by these definitions:
Straight man who dresses up as woman occasionally = transvestite
Gay man who dresses up as woman occasionally = transvestite+
Gay/straight man who dresses up as a woman to go onstage = drag queen
All of the above have no surgical changes to their body but in the old days they'd get called 'queer' as a slur (apparently that term has now been reclaimed)
Gay/straight man with fake tits who lives their life as a woman = pre-op tranny = ladyboy
Gay/straight man who may/may not have fake tits who lives their life as a woman and has had their cawk removed = post-op tranny aka trans-sexual
For me, it's only that last definition where I would even consider them sharing female only spaces. And even lopping off the old fella doesn't remove the advantages gained through a full puberty cycle as a male, which is why I bitch about sport so much
And notice all of the above are talking about M to F. Nobody gives a shit about F to M
(Sheesh - is it obvious I snagged a day off so have time to type this shit out!

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