the last photo of a young looking gay Hanky was from the same FB post with the comment by Spalding
No wonder he is saying Brian needs a real woman
I reckon Brian was openly gay before he met Jen and just wanted a kid, that why he split with her straight after.
He was likely cruising for cock when he joined getbig , once he realised it wasnt that type of forum thats why he was so homophobic when anyone called him queer.
He then got himself 2 beards, one on his face and one on his arm
Maybe his army discharge was his sexual deviancy.