So your wife mailed in her vote for Trump last week and voted for him in person this week? 
Out here, they have places that you can vote early, we voted last Sunday. I think we have always voted in person, it makes it more 'real'. I say, if you do not vote, do not complain!
By the way, even though California is so liberal, 40% of the people voted for Trump out there.
The question on my mind is how California has less voters that voted than Texas or Florida? Or did they not count all of California's votes yet? And how is the popular vote so much lower overall than 4 years ago...