I was doing other things. I did not realize I was supposed to be on your or anyone else's schedule.
Well if you would have asked you would have avoided this issue.
My biggest concern with your commuter lifestyle is your family suffers. You moved to be closer to your son and now you’re leaving him again, sure he lives closer to your physical address but driving 4 hours a day 4 times a week while being on campus eating, lifting, taking class and studying means you’re really spending the majority of your time at high point.
I know you think you’re telling your son you can accomplish anything but all he sees is my dad would rather be 4 hours away from me. You need to think about how your actions affect your family.
As your closest friend here I’m trying to get you to see the big picture. You can’t be in 2 places at the same time.