In my 20’s after a few break ups I found a strip club where I started out going with friends and for 2 years I would go there by myself until I met my wife at 28. (Not there)
I didn’t have a ton of money but I am a decent looking guy and most guys who go there are not so I became friends with some of them. I was into the Russian girls and dated one, but she was relatively normal compared to an American girl I dated.
The American girl was a lot of fun, but sometimes she seemed off and drugged but I couldn’t put my finger on it exactly because I was usually drinking back then.
One day I’m driving my car and I get a call from her phone. It’s her brother who I didn’t even know exists and he starts talking some really aggressive shit to me. He tells me I’m drug an addict who was getting his 19 year old sister hooked on drugs etc.
I told him I had no idea WTF he was talking about and he said he saw my text messages with her asking her if she wanted to go to H-Town as he told me she was now in rehab for heroin (2008). I told him that was just short for the bar town we were going to meet for a drink which is a well known town to grab a drink on LI.
All of sudden his tone changed. He said that I sounded like a good guy and that’s he was sorry for being a dick. I told him obviously understand and I hope she is okay. Never heard from either one again but I saw her account on FB some years later so she may have kicked the drugs.