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Can Men and Women Just Be Friends?
« on: March 27, 2025, 06:02:11 PM »
Can Men and women just be friends?  What's your opinion?


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Re: Can Men and Women Just Be Friends?
« Reply #1 on: March 27, 2025, 06:28:48 PM »
Women lie so easily

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Re: Can Men and Women Just Be Friends?
« Reply #2 on: March 27, 2025, 06:34:15 PM »

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Re: Can Men and Women Just Be Friends?
« Reply #3 on: March 27, 2025, 07:33:23 PM »
Imagine, in this day and age, with the constant propaganda around so-called toxic masculinity. The narrative that "men" have destroyed the planet, the narrative that men make more money solely because they are men, the residual hatred of men and divisiveness of 'me too', the fact that the lunatic liberal leftists want everyone to think there's no difference between the sexes and allowing men into womens bathrooms, locker rooms, sporting events etc... now imagine you are the gender that is naturally smaller, weaker, dumber, and more emotional than a man.

Women are vicious and they learn from a young age to use any means available to get what they want from a man. Lying,  fucking, trapping,  cheating.

Women play chess with men while men are playing checkers with women. We underestimate them because we're only ever thinking about fucking their brains out. But Women are constantly planning,  scheming,  plotting. And they never ever have to learn the hard lessons in life. The lessons that lead to characteristics like honor and integrity.

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Re: Can Men and Women Just Be Friends?
« Reply #4 on: March 27, 2025, 10:17:01 PM »
If the broad is remotely on the spectrum of fuckability, the answer is NO.  Most men, I'd say north of 90% are only as faithful as their options.  I would never be in a relationship with a woman who had male friends at least male friends that she hung out with. 

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Re: Can Men and Women Just Be Friends?
« Reply #5 on: March 28, 2025, 12:20:03 AM »
Women lie so easily

Yes and yet they also adamantly deny lying, they hate being called a liar.

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Re: Can Men and Women Just Be Friends?
« Reply #6 on: March 28, 2025, 12:53:20 AM »
Some men actually ignore the signs that their woman is fucking around ..they either don't want to accept it as being reality or they do & allow it.
It's the power of the Pussy!
No normal woman hangs out with "male friends "
Had one woman in the Gym office who openly was having an affair with a so called male friend.
She even went on holiday with him & her husband was left behind to look after the kids  :D
I remember she asked me to go into the mixed sauna with them...haha
I didn't, not that she was ugly because she was a very attractive German blond but I think she was trouble waiting to happen
Sometimes you gotta leave it...

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Re: Can Men and Women Just Be Friends?
« Reply #7 on: March 28, 2025, 02:36:06 AM »
You can be her friend, but she will stop being your friend, the moment she starts a more serious relationship with another guy. So my answer is no.

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Re: Can Men and Women Just Be Friends?
« Reply #8 on: March 28, 2025, 03:12:31 AM »
My aunt was, is, married to a guy, and she used to invite her ex-husband to stay with her and the new husband when he came back to the country to visit, he lived in Thailand. She also had a younger child with the ex that lived at home. I always thought that was strange, and especially that the new husband accepted it. Anything is possible I guess, assuming that the new one wasn't a cuck or whatever, which I do. I don't know about you guys but here it seems common that exes are invited on holidays or whatever and there's supposedly no jealousy.

Women say they have platonic male friends and supposedly don't understand that the friend wants to get with them. That is a lie! Lol. For the most part anyway. Flamer friends may be an exception.

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Re: Can Men and Women Just Be Friends?
« Reply #9 on: March 28, 2025, 03:20:56 AM »
Women can, men can't. At least men with high testosterone can't. What the fvck can a female friend offer me that excludes sex?

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Re: Can Men and Women Just Be Friends?
« Reply #10 on: March 28, 2025, 03:30:39 AM »
My aunt was, is, married to a guy, and she used to invite her ex-husband to stay with her and the new husband when he came back to the country to visit, he lived in Thailand. She also had a younger child with the ex that lived at home. I always thought that was strange, and especially that the new husband accepted it. Anything is possible I guess, assuming that the new one wasn't a cuck or whatever, which I do. I don't know about you guys but here it seems common that exes are invited on holidays or whatever and there's supposedly no jealousy.

Women say they have platonic male friends and supposedly don't understand that the friend wants to get with them. That is a lie! Lol. For the most part anyway. Flamer friends may be an exception.

does your Aunt visit swinger clubs?  used to work with a guy who was into all that stuff.
Remember one day working with him & he said we´ll just pop into my house for a coffee & his wife was there with us in the kitchen.
just felt weird, she was actually quite fit looking.
she was like always walking around us at the kitchen table & had tight black pants & T-shirt on..could see her nipples....etc.
i just felt awkward being there  ;D

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Re: Can Men and Women Just Be Friends?
« Reply #11 on: March 28, 2025, 03:41:06 AM »
Women can, men can't. At least men with high testosterone can't. What the fvck can a female friend offer me that excludes sex?

Hot girls phone numbers.

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Re: Can Men and Women Just Be Friends?
« Reply #12 on: March 28, 2025, 03:55:27 AM »
Women can, men can't. At least men with high testosterone can't. What the fvck can a female friend offer me that excludes sex?

being a pain in the ass?

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Re: Can Men and Women Just Be Friends?
« Reply #13 on: March 28, 2025, 04:38:34 AM »
If a woman  is good looking  absolutely no way  that I would be able to keep it only as a friendship. Only a gay guy /or democrat/ can be  just a friends  with a woman. WTF you are going to talk about to a woman anyway ??Let’s go shopping there is new shoe and purse store down the block??

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Re: Can Men and Women Just Be Friends?
« Reply #14 on: March 28, 2025, 05:16:00 AM »
I have one woman friend. She’s in her 60s. I’m in my 40s. It’s worked out just fine especially since we are in the same profession.

My heart belongs to Rory.
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Re: Can Men and Women Just Be Friends?
« Reply #15 on: March 28, 2025, 05:27:20 AM »
Women can be "just friends" with gay men.

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Re: Can Men and Women Just Be Friends?
« Reply #16 on: March 28, 2025, 06:55:48 AM »
Women can be "just friends" with gay men.

Most getbiggers are incels anyway and the majority of women would not want to sleep with getbiggers.

Getbiggers acting like having a female friend would be so hard, as if the women would be jumping all over them haha lol
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Re: Can Men and Women Just Be Friends?
« Reply #17 on: March 28, 2025, 07:00:40 AM »
I’ve had friendships with women where nothing happened but they were much different than friendships with men.

Even if you don’t have sex you are picking each other still based somewhat on attraction.

Me not getting to the sexual point was often just by chance because they were dating my friend or I eventually got transferred to a different city for work.

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Re: Can Men and Women Just Be Friends?
« Reply #18 on: March 28, 2025, 07:13:35 AM »
The way it's being asked here, then I would say "not really". But there are some interesting examples along the outer edges of the argument that can be delved into:

1. SENIORS: when we view senior citizens in their 80s and 90s in senior living centers, we see men and women engaging in traditional friendships much more freely. Is this because at at that age, the pressure to pair bond and mate has been reduced?

2. WORKING ENVIRONMENT: when we add the overarching pressures and mores of the corporate world, it's more common for men and women to engage in typical "friendships" than when we remove that artifice. The gain (financial, power, status) to men and women engaging in inter-sex friendships (without intercourse) far outweigh, in some cases, the gain that comes with pair bonding and intercourse. So, men and women able to repress standard physical urges seek friendships to create situations of mutual benefit that create financial and status gains in the workplace. For example, Jim doesn't know as much about cash flow analysis as he rightfully should, but needs to get better at it if he's to be promoted to senior accountant. Jane does present-value-of-future-cash-flows in her sleep, but lacks some of the coding wizardry in python that has allowed Jim to climb the ranks quickly. Both have something to gain by be-friending each other and sharing; both have decided it's best to be friends to win the war in corporate and learn that each of them are quite tolerable and have mutual interests beyond cash flow and python. But both are far too smart to succumb to anything but knowledge sharing.

3. boys are girls are likely to be friends, before the onset of puberty. This strengthens the OP's argument, of course. I just find it fascinating that much of it appears to be entirely driven by the emergence of estrogen and testosterone and the physiological and emotional changes it begets. Powerful stuff, those hormones. I digress...

4. within the strict confines of socially accepted norms, men and women can "befriend" each other. But there are strict (unspoken) rules here. It's common to see married couples who enjoy each other's company (platonically) where one husband connects with the other's wife on some topic of interest and they develop mutually shared interests in talking to each other. That relationship is allowed, typically (in well adjusted marriages) to develop, so long as the "wife of one" and the "husband of the other" engage in their discussions in the presence of the other's married partner. So in this way, a friendship between a man and woman of pair-bonding age can occur, but with the over-watch of another. I find this societal framework interesting. It suggests that men and women can befriend each other despite being awash in testosterone and estrogen, but that there's still a societal recognition (and perhaps even self-recognition) that test and estro are formidable beasts that can't entirely be trusted.

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Re: Can Men and Women Just Be Friends?
« Reply #19 on: March 28, 2025, 07:25:34 AM »
Im not friends with anyone..

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Re: Can Men and Women Just Be Friends?
« Reply #20 on: March 28, 2025, 07:28:51 AM »
Im not friends with anyone..
you did write before that female friends were preferable over male friends because of the male macho thing

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Re: Can Men and Women Just Be Friends?
« Reply #21 on: March 28, 2025, 07:30:45 AM »
you did write before that female friends were preferable over male friends because of the male macho thing

Do you kep a detailed record of eveything I post.

I use the word "friend" when I know thats what other peoples interpretaion of that word is, its so we understand each other.

I have no idea what "friend" is supposed to mean in my mind.

What do you think it means?

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Re: Can Men and Women Just Be Friends?
« Reply #22 on: March 28, 2025, 07:39:25 AM »
Do you kep a detailed record of eveything I post.

I use the word "friend" when I know thats what other peoples interpretaion of that word is, its so we understand each other.

I have no idea what "friend" is supposed to mean in my mind.

What do you think it means?

no i just have a good memory despite taking Statins  ;)

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Re: Can Men and Women Just Be Friends?
« Reply #23 on: March 28, 2025, 07:47:11 AM »
does your Aunt visit swinger clubs?  used to work with a guy who was into all that stuff.
Remember one day working with him & he said we´ll just pop into my house for a coffee & his wife was there with us in the kitchen.
just felt weird, she was actually quite fit looking.
she was like always walking around us at the kitchen table & had tight black pants & T-shirt on..could see her nipples....etc.
i just felt awkward being there  ;D


Whats her address pls  ;D

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Re: Can Men and Women Just Be Friends?
« Reply #24 on: March 28, 2025, 07:54:31 AM »
no i just have a good memory despite taking Statins  ;)

I took statins once, and....well, you know dont you... ;D